Just a normal day at home

We take so many photos of our kids on our iphone that I’m losing the good quality photographs that I love.  I sometimes randomly pull out my Nikon and shoot pics of the kids so we have good photos to show them one day when they are older.  Don’t get me wrong, I love the phone pics, because they are snap shots and show our daily lives.

Throughout my years of taking pictures, I’ve learned the best way to capture a child is to get pictures of them in his/her element.  Like I said I randomly pull out my Nikon and capture the kids doing what they love to do around the house.  Yesterday was a perfect day to do that.  Hayden was in the office with Jonathan playing with trains, Ian was playing with his pirate ship and cars, and Harper, well…she was just following her brothers around ;).

Here are some of the photos I got:

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Ian loves playing with cars and his Jake and the Neverland Pirates ship. He also still loves his fire station we got him for Christmas.

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Hayden loves his trains and asks us to help him put them together on a daily basis.  We have put together some pretty impressive tracks for him that he loves.  All day long we will hear a very loud choochoo noise..

 

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Harper just loves to follow her brothers around and see what thy are doing.  She loves to play with their cars and has started putting them on the car ramp too!

I love just watching the kids play, its awesome to see their differences and their personalities come out when they play.

bath time fun

The other night I let the boys take an extra long bath since Ian was actually wanting to take a bath.  Recently he has decided he didn’t like taking baths and would cry through the whole thing…not sure why.  Well, he willingly got in the bath that night and was playing with Hayden, so I wasn’t about to stop that fun. Instead, I grabbed a camera and took some pictures.

3 Years Old

3 years old

My boys are 3 years old! They have grown up so much since last year, its amazing the difference between a “new” 2-year-old and an “old” 2-year-old. They are now talking like big boys.  Granted, we still can’t understand about 20% of what they say, but they try so hard to get it out.

The boys have definitely turned into little boys and there is no more baby in them! It kind of makes me sad, but at the same time, I’m loving watching them become their own little person.  They are ALL boy and love to run, jump and climb, like any other 3 yr old boy! I would call them highly active, not hyper. They love playing outside in the backyard or at the park climbing on the jungle gym.

IMG_2174For their birthday we got them a big play set for the back yard that they call their “castle”.

IMG_2698The boys are all into cars and trains these days.  They have also just started pretend playing.  They tell me all the time, “we pretend” when they are “cooking” on their grill.  I walked in their room the other day and they were “pretending to wash their hands” with the hand sanitizer.  Not sure how they got it but they did and it was everywhere.

Hayden playing with his new train set

Ian playing with his new car ramp

This fall they started a parents day out program at our parents church (which we recently started attending) 2 days a week, and love it! It’s great for mom and dad too because that gives us each a day where we have about 4 hours that we can get stuff done or run errands with only 1 baby in tow – its amazing how much you can get done with 1 baby vs 2 or even 3!  When I went back to work after my maternity leave with Harper I went part-time, so I’m working 3 days a week now and am able to be at home a little more with the kids.  Luckily, one of those days that I’m off is a day the boys go to PDO.

The boys just had their 3 year check up today and passed with flying colors :).  Hayden weighed 34 pounds and was 38.25 inches tall (85%) and Ian weighed 30 pounds and 37.25 inches tall – as always, an inch shorter than Hayden. They are doing well with their sleep, eating (even though Hayden is very picky and Ian won’t drink milk anymore – like at all) and reflux/tummy issues.  We have both boys on a daily probiotic and I think it has helped quite a bit with digestive issues they had a few months ago. They both have seasonal allergies, Hayden not as much as Ian, and take Zyrtec as needed.

We have been slowly potty training the  boys and they do pretty well when we put them on the toilet to go, but they don’t do as well keeping underwear dry.  We haven’t really just put them in underwear much, simply because we haven’t had a free few days in a row to really work on it.  We plan on doing that around Christmas when Jonathan and I are both home for a week.

When Harper came along, it through the boys for a loop for a while.  They were off their schedule and mommy and daddy weren’t as accessible to them as often as they were since we had to take care of a pretty needy baby.  They were starting to act out some and were both having problems sleeping, but after things got semi back to normal and we had a routine again, our boys were back. Of course, they are your typical 3 year olds and visit time out on a daily basis for some reason or another.

These boys love their sister – they are always checking on her and trying to give her a hug or kiss.  They like to kiss her goodnight before going to bed every night and they love to climb up on her crib side rail to look at her.

Always checking on their sister - disregard the paci in Ian's mouth...we're working on that.  They only get it for nap and bedtime but he must have sneaked it when I wasn't looking

The boys generally play well together and its great that they always have a friend to play with. They do fight over toys like any toddler/preschooler would and they have been known to push one another, which leads to an automatic time out in our house and afterwards they have to hug and apologize to their brother. They really do love each other and get along great most of the time.  Ian tends to be the one that we’ll find playing by himself with his cars or reading a book, and Hayden does do well playing trains by himself, but prefers to play with someone else most of the time.

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Hayden is our thinker, always has been….he has the mind of an engineer and it seems like it’s always on.  He’s tries to figure out how things work and loves to take things apart – not always put them back together though.

IMG_2728He is a sweet boy and loves giving hugs and kisses now. He likes to sit in your lap or by you on the couch when watching curious george or daniel tiger.  When he is tired, he is a cuddle bug.

He is still pretty picky – mainly due to textures that he can’t tolerate (he gets that from me), but loves his chicken nuggets (from Costco only), peanut butter sandwiches, and any carbs – bread, chips, etc.  He will only eat apples and bananas, no other fruit and no veggies.  But, he loves an organic spinach/cheese pizza – go figure!

He is a sweet boy and loves giving hugs and kisses now. He likes to sit in your lap or by you on the couch when watching curious george or daniel tiger.  When he is tired, he is a cuddle bug.

He loooves his trains! He has 2 different tracks that he plays with and he still loves his train table that he got last year for his birthday.  He is a happy camper when we let him sit and watch steam engine videos on our ipad.

This boy loooves his sleep, and is definitely a morning person (not sure where he gets that from because neither me nor his dad are).  He is ready to go to bed at night and sometimes will ask to take his nap.  But when morning comes (anywhere between 600-700) he is up and at em! Ian usually keeps Hayden up at night but Hayden wakes Ian up in the morning (which is not good sense Ian is NOT a morning person).  He still takes about an hour nap every day and goes to sleep usually around 745-800 and sleeps all night.

IMG_2715Hayden loves to “cook”.  We bought them a little grill and some play food and they are always cooking us lunch.  He got a little chef outfit for his birthday and loves to wear it.  He was helping daddy fix their dinner in this picture.

Hayden is a ham! he loves to joke around and goof off.  His laugh is contagious and you can’t help but laugh when you hear him.  When he smiles his eyes light up and his smile will definitely bring a smile to your face.

Hayden is a great helper and loves to have a task at hand.  He is someone who needs to feel needed and when he is asked to help you he gets excited.  I call him my OCD baby because he likes things to be in order and if they are out-of-place he will let me know.  He will be the one to put his cup or plate in the sink after he eats, or throw away a wrapper after he’s opened something.

This kid will go places and will more than likely be the leader doing it!

IMG_2727Ian is our Mr. Independent and the one to say “me do myself” many times throughout the day.  He loves to do things by himself like a big boy but not too big to ask for help.

Ian doesn’t care as much as Hayden as to how things work, just as long as they work! He is not as detail oriented as Hayden but is just as particular.  He loves to have things a certain way and has to have the same things every night when he sleeps – his animals, blanket, taggie, paci and flashlight!

Ian has a special name for Hayden.  He calls him “Zeus”, yes Zeus…like the greek god.  Of course he didn’t choose this name from greek mythology, but we have no clue where he came up with this or how it started.  One day he just started calling him that.  He even has us calling him that sometimes.

Ian is definitely our night owl and not a morning person.  He will keep Hayden up at night talking or trying to play.  We sometimes have to separate them at night because they end up playing instead of sleeping and when we do that Hayden goes straight to sleep where as Ian will lay there talking or singing to himself.  But Hayden usually wakes Ian up in the mornings and he is a mr. grumpy pants when that happens.  Ian is best when he is left to sleep until about 800 and wakes up on his own.

Ian can be a cuddle bug too, when he wants to be. He loves to cuddle with you on the couch or in the recliner after his nap. He will be the one to get upset when mommy has to leave to go to work – not always, but sometimes.  We have found that Ian is our homebody, he prefers to stay home and play rather than go somewhere.  He gets overstimulated if he does too much in one day.

Ian may not be the leader of the group, but he is strong-willed enough not to be persuaded into doing something he doesn’t want to do.

This boy loves his stuffed animals.  His bed is mostly animals and blankets and you’ll find him under them all! We’ve gone in there a few times and he has a teddy bear over his head.  He also loves his cars.  He can never have too many cars and will play with them for hours if we let him.

He loves to watch curious george and never gets tired of that IMG_0632little monkey! He was going through a mickey mouse phase where all he wanted to watch was mickey – “me watch mickey mouse?” all. day. long. But he isn’t into it that much anymore. He is a happy camper when he gets to sit and watch cars or mickey on our ipad.

He is still our reader and loves books, I will find him sitting on the couch reading a book at times, but he would still prefer us to read them to him.

Ian has always been a good eater, he will eat most any fruit and some green beans.  He will try some new foods occasionally and we tell him its ok not to like them, but he does need to try them.

Ian’s laugh is infectious and I love to hear him bust out laughing at something.  I love to see him get excited about something because his eyes show how excited he is.

I can’t wait to see what this kid will do!

Both of my boys have great manners.  We have always taught them to say please and thank you and now we find them saying it without us asking or telling them to say it.  I love to hear them say “tank you” in their little voices.

I have two of the best kids around and I couldn’t have asked for better boys.  I love them so much and now that they are talking, I love hearing what all they have to say!

Happy Birthday Boys!

Here is our annual picture with the boys in front of the house.  And for fun, a look back as previous years:

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Big Brothers

Wow, I’ve got a lot of posts to catch up on since baby girl was born.  Lets start with the big brothers!

So, remember way back when, in January or so when we posted this picture…

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Here is a much better, much more recent picture of that…

siblingsoh my…I can’t believe how much older the boys look here.  They don’t look like babies anymore.

We decided to keep the boys home the day Harper was born and the next morning my mom and Jonathan’s mom brought them up to the hospital to meet their new little sister.  We had no clue how they were going to respond to this and it was fun to see their reactions.  Jonathan met our moms and brought the boys in the room so it was just us in their when they came in to meet her.

IMG_1149The instantly walked over to see her in the bassinet….well, after I insisted they give me a hug first 😉

IMG_1156I think this is when it hit them that this baby Harper we’ve been talking is an actual being and real. Hayden was interested in meeting her but that interest wore off pretty fast and he was ready to move on.  He liked her, but I think he may have been scared of her or scared that he would hurt her or something…I don’t know.  He wasn’t too interested in holding her like Ian was.  I got a quick picture of him holding her but right after I snapped the photo, he was done.

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Hayden holding Harper

Honestly, I was very surprised at how much Ian loved her and wanted to kiss her and hold her.

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Ian holding Harper

Ian holding Harper

We gave the boys a “goodie bag” as a gift from Harper to them.  They were Curious George backpacks that they can use for school and filled with books, coloring books and crayons, cars, little trucks, some snacks, etc.  It kept the busy for a little while at the hospital before they went back home with our moms.

IMG_1169I wish I got some better photos of them but I was taking pictures from the bed and I was still in A LOT of pain from the c-section.

Ian wanted to sit on the bed with me and Harper and his expression pretty much sums up how he felt meeting his sister….I love this picture.

IMG_1189Coming home was no exception, Ian wanted to hold her and check on her all the time. Hayden would look at her and then go on with his business, but I did catch him going over and patting her head to see how she was doing.  Hayden is always concerned about where Harper is. If he doesn’t see her, he’ll say “oh no, baby Harper gone”.  Ian is very concerned with her whereabouts as well ;).  Yesterday she was in Jonathan’s office with him and when he walked in the living room and she wasn’t there, he got concerned.  I told him that we took her back to the hospital and he got rather upset… “noooo, baby Harper stay home”.  I quickly told him I was just kidding and we would never take her back, he was fine after that.

Hayden checking on Harper

Hayden checking on Harper

Ian holding Harper

Ian holding Harper

Ian checking on Harper

Ian checking on Harper

Having 3 kids has been a little crazy, but I wouldn’t change it for anything…

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me and my 3 munchkins

 

 

What We’ve Been Up To

The boys are 2.5 years old now and very active and curious little guys. We have learned that we need to get them active everyday to run off their energy or they will not go to sleep easily at night.  On the weekends, we try to get them to a park or some other type of fun activity.  Some of their favorite things right now are firetrucks “wee-wee trucks”, tractors and trains “choo-choo’s”.

We recently took the boys to see Uncle Matt at the fire station and he let them look inside the firetruck, and he even took them for a ride around the block in it – sirens and all!  I think this is one of my all time favorite pictures of Hayden now, it is the look of pure joy on a little boys face:

Hayden and the firetruck

Hayden and the firetruck

Jonathan took the boys on a train ride (the DART rail) last weekend and I think they loved every minute of it.

In the last few weeks the boys’ vocabulary has exploded and they are saying soooo much more.  They aren’t just saying new words, but they are trying to put sentences together and form phrases.  Hayden is really the one that has surprised us.  He has always been a little behind Ian in the language department.  I think it was just because Ian would talk for him and he didn’t have a reason to say anything.  I also think he was just being lazy and didn’t want to talk.  For the longest time when he wanted water he would just say “wa” instead of water.  It drove us nuts, we would always make him say water and he would, but now he says water consistently.  They both would always say “vroom” instead of car but in the last few weeks they have been saying car, which is actually more like “cow” but its progress!  I haven’t heard them say “vroom” once in the last few weeks.

We decided to finally cut all of Ian’s hair off for the summer and he instantly looked 2 years older!  A few weeks later we decided to go ahead and buzz Hayden’s hair too so he could have a cooler haircut for our hot Texas summers!  The kid sweats like crazy – his hold head will be wet just from running around the house.

Ian's new due - its actually even shorter now

Ian’s new due – its actually even shorter now

We are trying to get the boys ready for the arrival of their new sister, but they are still pretty young and don’t quite understand what’s happening.  They talk about baby “…” (hehe, you’ll find out her name when she arrives!) and they know mommy has a baby in her tummy, but do they really know whats happening….no! They have no clue that a baby is going to come and live with them.  It’ll be interesting to see how they respond to her once she is actually here – only a few weeks left!

We took the boys to Ham Orchards last weekend for some home made peach ice cream.  I think they liked it! You can pick your own blackberries and peaches there but we didn’t do that when we went.  Maybe next year.

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We got the boys a little pool for the backyard and they love the little “fountain” that it has.  The pool may not much, but for a 2 year old, its a lot of fun.

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I am so ready for the summer to be over, and it just started! It get so hot here and I hate the heat.  Give me the 70-80 degree weather and I’m happy.  Unfortunately for the boys, this heat means that they don’t get to go outside s often, and unfortunately for us, because they don’t get to run their energy off so its harder to put them to sleep at night.  Its a lose, lose for everyone!

 

Bluebonnets

Its that time of year, the bluebonnets are out and its time to get snapin’…pictures that is.  Its a Texas tradition every year to get pictures in the bluebonnets. I can’t explain why or what the big deal is, but we do it every year…there’s just something about sitting in a patch of beautiful bluebonnets!

The boys were not into it this year.  The grass was a little moist still from the rain the day before and I don’t know if that had anything to do with it or what, they just did not want to sit down or smile.  We grabbed some of them running around or looking down or the opposite direction.  I did get one picture of me and the boys and one of the boys and Jonathan, but none of the 4 of us or even a good one of the 2 of them.  O’well, maybe next year…you know, when there is a 3rd kid to to try to wrangle with, because that will make it much easier! 😉

But, here are some of the pictures we got:

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Stitches

The winner for the first one to get stitches goes to……Ian!  I’m really late at posting this, but about a month ago we were getting the boys ready for bed one night an, well lets just say we took a slight detour to urgent care on our way to bed. The boys were being crazy, as always and Ian was climbing on the glider rocker I just put back in their room a day before. We both had told him to get down and the next thing we knew he was on the floor, crying and holding his head.  At this point there was no blood or anything so I picked him up and Jonathan went to get an ice pack to put on his head. When I sat in the chair to take a look at his head, I was surprised to find blood running down his entire face.  I immediately told Jonathan, “we’re going to need more than an ice pack!”  I pulled his hair back and he had a huge gash on his head, right at about his hairline. It was about an inch long and pretty deep at one end of it.  Since Jonathan’s mom had just left from watching them all day a little before this, I had Jonathan call my mom and ask if they could come over and stay with Hayden while we took Ian. So we called their pediatrician to see where the best place to take him would said since he didn’t lose consciousness or anything.  once my parents got there, we just took him to the urgent care facility that was next to the pediatricians office instead of an ER. It was a great facility and we had a great experience – as good as you can have under the circumstances.

The doctor there agreed that it was deep towards the bottom of the gash and that he would need 4 stitches. Here is the before picture:

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Ian was so good, he just sat there and played with his curious George stuffed animal while the doctor was looking at his head and when she was giving him the “shots” to numb the area before stitching him up he just laid there watching, what else, Curious George, on Jonathan’s iPhone. This kid was awesome, not one tear or anything while he was getting stitches! I was a very proud momma!

IMG_9249 When we were all finished we went home and he went to bed.  Of course we gave him some Tylenol in case his head was hurting, and. I honestly expected him to wake up throughout the night and be a little cranky the next day. Again, it didn’t even phase him!

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The next day himself just his normal self. Jonathan was home with them that next day and his biggest problem was keeping him still enough not to bang his head again!

IMG_9259He did just as great when we went to the pediatrician to get the stitches out.  By the time we went to get them removed, he only had 2 stitches left…the other 2 had fallen out sometime over the previous 7 days. Oops.

Poor Hayden didn’t know what to do when Ian got hurt. I had Ian in the kitchen with me while I was holding a towel to his head to stop the bleeding and Hayden was just standing there tearing up because Ian was hurt.  He didn’t know what to do and was worried about his brother.  I asked Hayden if he would go get Ian’s pacifier just to give him something to do and maybe he would feel like he was helping. He immediately went to find it and when he brought it to Ian he wouldn’t get any closer than about 2 feet from him, so he just threw it at him and backed away. It was the funniest thing! But it was sweet, he was worried about his brother.

Here’s to hoping we wont have anymore stitches in our future with any of the kids!

Neglecting the blog

I have pretty much neglected the blog for some time now.  Our lives have gotten incredibly busy lately with 2 very active two year olds and me being pregnant.  All that combined has left me with no energy or desire to sit down and think about writing a blog post.  But, now that I am feeling better and have a little more energy, I am hoping to start posting more.  So for now, I’ll leave you with a picture of my goobers, simply so you can see just how goofy they are..

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one size fits all

When it comes to family, how big is too big?  Or what do you consider a small family? One size fits all definitely doesn’t relate to a family size. Every family is different.  Every couple has to decide on their own what they want for their family, how big do they want it. How many kids to they consider to be a big family?

Since we have announced the addition of our 3rd baby (which we are very excited, yet very nervous about!) I have had several people say, in response, “oh you want a big family!” Really, 3 kids is what people consider a big family? I can see how a person who only had 1 child would consider it a “big family.”  But for me and Jonathan who both grew up in a family with 3 kids, its normal.  Its a normal sized family, not big, not small. I personally consider a family big when it has 4 or more kids.

I think Jonathan and I would both agree that we would love to have a “big family” but since we have been given the experience of expanding our family by 1 child at a time this time we will see how it goes with #3 before deciding on another one.  We would both love to adopt, so if we go for #4 (in the far distant future) that may be the route we take.  You know, since I LOVE being pregnant and all (just imagine a sarcastic undertone with that).

Anyway, like I said, we both grew up with a family of 3 kids and love it. He has 2 sisters, I had 2 brothers.  Luckily, we all grew up and love each other.  There isn’t any family hate, or turmoil between any of us and we sincerely enjoy spending time together.  Its funny that as you get older, you actually become friends with your siblings.  And, I love that we get along well with each others siblings.  I can honestly say that Jonathan’s sister has become one of my best friends, and I love it!

When it comes to bigger families, I think I would be more likely to say lets go for it, rather than Jonathan.  Simply because I did get a little taste of what its like to have a bigger family growing up.  All growing up we had a family friends (the Medlins) that were just as much family as my “real” family, they were just an extension of our family.  For 35 or so years our families have lived by eachother, moved where the other family moved, went on vacations together, spent holidays together.  Some of my favorite memories growing up were when all 5 of us “siblings” got together.  We would play games, sing Bohemian Rhapsody aloud in the living room, joke with our moms (mainly the brothers did this) and laugh at our dads.  Even to this day, I always look forward to times when we can all get together. The majority of us have kids now and its fun watching a new generation become friends, its a little different though because the ages are a little off and none of them will go to the same schools or live int he same neighborhood like we did.  But its still fun and I look forward to what the future holds.

No matter what size our family becomes, whether we stop at 3 or go for #5 (hahaha, just kidding!!) My prayer and hope for our children is that they grow up loving each other and truly enjoy spending time with one another. I hope they grow to lean on each other and be there for their brother/sister – wishful thinking that #3 is a girl 😉 -  in times of need . I also hope that they grow up and love spending time with their cousins, because really they have no choice, they will be spending a lot of time with them either way! So far they love them all, so I think we’re good!

So what about you, what do you consider a “big family?”

Adding on to Casa de Blundell

We have decided to make some additions to our home.  There will be some renovations going on in the next 6 months, some not so pleasant, but definitely worth it in the end! The majority of these renovations will mostly affect 1 person of this family, but I’m sure everyone will feel the repercussions of these renovations.

This add-on will be taking part in 3 phases throughout the next several months.  The first phase is just about complete and we may (fingers crossed) have a relatively easy phase coming up.  The first phase has been rough so far, there’s been a lot of headaches, sleeplessness and fatigue, mixed with a little nausea.  The last phase will be the roughest of all, we will all be uncomfortable and inpatient while we wait for the completion of the project.  We’ll be checking in with the project leader a lot in the end they will ultimately decide when the end date will come.

Here is a sneak peak at our new addition…

Coming in July, we will be welcoming a new addition to our family…we are so excited to be welcoming our 3rd baby and can’t wait to finally meet him or her! More to come later…