Easter

I am a little late on the Easter post, but better late than never, right?  This Easter was a little different for us in that we didn’t go to church on Sunday morning. Gaaaaasp! Instead, we went to the Saturday evening service at our church (see, we still went to church). We knew the boys were going to be out and their nap schedules would be all thrown off on Sunday, so we decided to just let them sleep in on Sunday morning.

We went to Jonathan’s parents house for lunch on Sunday and the boys hunted for easter eggs in the backyard in-between rain showers.  Hayden was definitely into finding the easter eggs, Ian on the other hand could care less.  He was more interested in the balloon in the backyard or going in and out of the sliding door on the patio.  He liked the fact that he could make it up the big step all by himself…so he went up the step, down the step, up the step, down the set, over and over again.

  Hayden
   Ian

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The boys love to play the piano at grandma and grandpa’s house, so of course they had to give us a mini recital.

After lunch we went out to my brothers gym in Flower Mound (Best Gymnastics) and met my aunts and cousins there for some play time and another easter egg hunt.  The boys had a blast running around and playing on the trampolines and in the big foam pit.  The easter egg hunt wasn’t a huge hit with them, but they did find a few easter eggs.  Hopefully next year they will be a bit more into it.  I didn’t get too many pictures f the easter egg hunt because I was too busy chasing after the boys and making sure they didn’t fall or run into anything.

   Hayden and Uncle Brad in the foam pit
    Ian sliding into the pit
   Hayden sliding into the pit
   Hayden deciding what to do next
   Ian about to climb on the mat
   Hayden
   Ian

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It was a fun day had by all and a day of reflection for us as we celebrated the resurrection of Christ and the price he paid for us.

 

Christmas 2011

This year was so different than last Christmas. The boys did a whole lot more this year. Instead of just laying there and being passed around from person to person, we were taking turns watching them as they run around the house! They weren’t too into the whole unwrapping presents, but they did love what was inside all the wrapping.

Christmas Eve we went to church for the Christmas Eve service and then had my parents and Jonathan’s parents over for dinner. The boys got to “open” their gift from Jonathan’s parents and were to interested in playing with it to go to bed when the time came. They got a big truck full of blocks!

Christmas Day We opened present at our house and then went to my parents for lunch with my family.  My parents got the boys some riding firetrucks so we have been playing with them for the last week. After lunch we drove to s=Sulphur Springs to spend the evening with Jonathan’s family.  The boys did really well for not having more than an hour of sleep all day.  We expected them to sleep the whole way home from Sulphur Springs but they did no such thing! They were over stimulated, over tired and not in the mood to sleep.  Overall, it was a fun day.

Here are some photos of all our Christmas fun.

Christmas Eve at our house

Christmas Morning

Christmas Day

Merry Christmas from the Blundell Family

 

My How They’ve Grown…and duplicated

Every year at Christmas we have our annual Turner-Medlin Christmas extravaganza.  Since us “kids” are all grown up now, we try to take a picture of all our kids each year to see how much the have grown from the last year…and its fun to see the group multiply year after year. Here are some of the pictures we have taken over the years. We started doing this in 2006 and I have no clue what happened to the 2007 or 2008 picture, but I have 2006, 2009, 2010 and 2011 to show you. Its interesting to see the group and how as the kids get older, the picture is more organized and just a better photo overall…It will be fun to see if the group grows more next year! (NOT BY US ADDING TO THE GROUP)

Its a tradition now that the little kids get new pajamas from the grandmas so in every picture you will see them wearing their new PJ’s.

2006 - Jake (6), Brooklyn (2), Aubrie (2mo)

2009 - Jake (9), Brooklyn (5), Aubrie (3)

2010 – Jake (10), Brooklyn (6), Aubrie (4), Hayden (2mo), Ian (2mo)

2011 - Jake (11), Brooklyn (7), Aubrie (5), Hayden (14mo), Ian (14mo), Blake (2mo)

Holiday Traditions

Nativity Scene - minus a few wise men

Our twin boys are a year old and I know they don’t understand what Christmas is or traditions or even what presents are for that matter.  They just know that one day when they woke up they saw a big green thing in their living room covered with pretty lights and cool things to take off. Maybe next year they will start to get the idea that Christmas time is a good time of year and they will soon look forward to it coming around year after year.  But I want my kids to look forward to Christmas time because of the holiday traditions and the time spent with family.

Growing up I loved this time of year because we got to spend it with all our family, I only had 1 cousin around my age, the others were 10+ years older than me or 10+ years younger than me.  But I still looked forward to spending time with them – I still do!

Jonathan and I have been trying to think of some holiday traditions to do with our boys every year because those are the things you grow up and remember (hopefully).  I love pulling out the ornaments and trying to remember where we got all of them or who gave them to us.  I hope our boys will enjoy that too, especially the ones that are their very own.

While growing up, Christmas morning was the same year after year.  We would all go wait in my mom and dad’s room while my dad went in and made sure Santa had come and left everything where it was “supposed” to be.  I think he really just went in and went back to sleep on the couch, because it seemed to take FOREVER for him to come back.  Then we would all run to the living room and see what Santa left for us.  We all had our official Christmas morning spot in the room.  Every year we were in the same spot, and its funny because if you were to look in our living room window now on Christmas day, you would still find the 3 of us sitting in the same spot as we did when we were kids.  Some things never change!

I think one of the oddest traditions that I have heard about, and one that I will not be doing with my kids is the “elf on a shelf.”  Have you seen this little dude? He’s just plain creepy. For those of you who have no clue what I’m talking about… it’s a little elf that you put on a shelf or anywhere you want and its supposed to be a reminder for kids to be on their best behavior because the elf will tell Santa who has been naughty or nice.

Thanks, but no thanks.

I don’t need a little elf to “watch” my kids and make them think that he is going to go back and tell Santa all about their behavior.  I put the fear of God in them so they behave good all year round — just kidding ;).  Isn’t that just teaching our kids that if they behave, Santa will bring them presents.  They should behave well without the end result being presents. We don’t want to kill the “magic that is Santa” but we don’t want our boys growing up thinking they’ll always be rewarded handsomely just because they behave properly, and on the flip side, if they don’t get exactly what they want – it’s not because they’re being punished for bad behavior.

It’s difficult to fight the mentality that invades this time of year, that Christmas is all about getting the biggest and best gifts.  We always had a great Christmas growing up, we never got the biggest or hottest item that was being sold and we were fine with that (I think that’s because none of us were in to that).  My parents didn’t spend hundreds of dollars per child at Christmas (at least not that I’m aware of 😉 ), yet we still had awesome Christmas gifts and loved what we got. I read something the other day that said, on average, parents spend $500-$600 per child at Christmas time. That’s outrageous! Although when we were growing up there wasn’t the XBox, iPhone, iPad, flat screen TV’s, or any of the other 100 electronic devices that are out there now either.  Now days, the wants are greater and the price tags are higher!

I want to make sure my kids know what the meaning of Christmas is and that it’s not all about getting presents. My boys have a book about the Christmas story and one part of it says “We give gifts to each other to celebrate the birth of Christ.”  I don’t want them to grow up thinking that just because its Christmas they are entitled to getting things.  I want to see my boys faces fill with joy and anticipation as they open their presents on Christmas morning because they know we love them and celebrate them.  Not because some guy in a red suit gave them things on their wish list.

Here’s to making Christmas memories and traditions to follow for years to come!

Christmas Photos

Last weekend we had some pictures taken of us for our Christmas card.  We had 1 cranky boy that only slept about 30 minutes that afternoon so he was not in the mood for pictures!  But we did get some good ones despite our cranky toddler.  Its so funny to see how the differences in our boys comes through in pictures. Hayden is all into stacking things like blocks and playing with toys, where Ian is all about the electronics (much like his daddy).  The only way we could get a picture of Ian was to give him my cell phone.  Ian also started climbing on the step ladder, so we just threw lights around it and made it a part of the photos.  So here are some of the pictures we got…

Our Family

My boys

Hayden

Hayden

Ian

Ian

 

 

Thanksgiving 2011

Our Family Thanksgiving Day

Thanksgiving Day was a little different this year than it was last year. Last year, we had two little babies in tow that pretty much just sat there and were passed around from person to person while we ate, visited and so forth.  This year, they were a little more mobile, to say the least! They were running everywhere and getting into everything.  We brought their high chairs so we wouldn’t have to sit them in our laps while we attempted to eat and feed them at the same time.  They both ate some yummy turkey that my aunt Gwen made, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, green bean casserole and their favorite, rolls.  Their feast was much better tasting than last years feast of formula!

We are blessed in that my niece (7) and nephew (10) were there and more than willing to play with the boys, AKA chase them around so we can have a little break. They had fun playing with the sit and spin, their toys, play dough and sliding down the slide.

We had a great time with my family and then it was time to head over to Jonathan’s parents house for round 2.  His cousins had already left before we got there but we did get to see some family before they headed out too.

The boys didn’t get much of a nap that day – maybe 20 minutes in the car -  so they were pretty sleepy and cranky by 5:00 or so.  We visited with Jonathan’s family for a little while and then headed home so we could get the boys in bed before total meltdowns occurred.  Here are some pictures of our fun from that day. Some of them are from my phone so they are a little blurry.

Brooklyn playing play dough with Hayden

The boys playing with play dough together

Hayden sliding while Ian waits his turn

Ian sitting in my moms rocking chair she had as a kid

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The cousins playing together

Lastly, here is a picture of the boys last year at Thanksgiving and this year….it’s crazy how much they have grown in a year!

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Thanksgiving 2010 and 2011

 

 

The Holidays

So this is waaaay over due but it’s been a little hard to get stuff done around here lately. With both of us back at work now, we’re a little more tired than we were before and when we are at home with the boys we don’t want to spend out time online. The boys are also more aware of things and take up a lot of our time, imagine that, huh?!

Anyway here is a wrap up of the holidays with our new little family. We’ll start with Thanksgiving since I didn’t ever post anything about it – ha.

First Thanksgiving

We had lunch with Jonathan’s family on Thanksgiving and introduced the boys to his side of the family. We ended up meeting his aunt, uncle and cousins for lunch the weekend after Thanksgiving and unfortunately I didn’t get any pictures, can you believe that? Continue reading

Turlindelzi Christmas

This is waaay over due. It’s been sitting in my blog dashboard for a while now unfinished. So here it is, a few weeks late.

The Turlindelzi Christmas is more commonly called the Turner-Medlin Christmas or Medlin-Turner Christmas, depending on who you ask. But since we have added us and the Lattanzi’s to the last name mix, I came up with a new name – Turlindelzi. Our two families have been doing our annual Christmas get together for years…I mean years, we’re talking 20+ years. It’s one of two events all of us “kids” look forward to every year! The other one is our New Years Day extravaganza to celebrate my dad and Bob’s Birthdays. Now that the “kids” are starting to have their own kids, we hope they will look forward to it as much as all of us do!

Next generation Turner-Medlin crew

We always have a wonderful meal, usually Vicki’s chili and other yummy foods and a birthday cake for Jake. This get together has turned into a family birthday party for Jake as well.

After dinner we do Jake’s birthday celebration (cake and gifts) and then let the little kids open their gifts. Every year the little kids get a new pair of Christmas pajamas from grammy and granna Vicki.

The boys in their new jammies

After the little kids, we let the older people open their gifts – haha. I mean our parents. This is usually funny to watch and there is almost always a story that is “the funniest thing you have ever heard!” OR There will be a story behind every gift between my mom and Vicki! Fun times in deed.

The last couple of years us older kids have started doing a white elephant gift exchange instead of getting gifts for everyone. We kind of changed the name of the gift exchange though to the green brown bag white elephant gift exchange. Its green because it is something nice but that we already have and don’t want anymore. For example, picture frames or a candle holder, etc that’s still nice but you aren’t using anymore. Its brown bag because we wrap it in a brown bag instead of using wrapping paper and then the white elephant is self explanatory. This is usually a fun time and of course is more fun when people steal gifts!

Growing up we would always end up staying around and playing games, laughing at stories until we pee our pants and who knows what else but now that we have kids we typically end up calling it a night so we can get the little ones to sleep.

This year was a hard year for us all during the celebration because we were missing one key person, Bob. We were all sad that he wasn’t with us this year but he was in spirit and in our memories of him. The hardest part about it was watching my dad. Bob was his best friend and he looked lost without him there this year. I am glad the boys were there because he was holding one the majority of the night and I think they helped distract him. The two of them would always just sit back and watch us all be crazy and laugh at us while talking about golf. I know it was hard for him and I can’t imagine how hard New Years day is going to be on him.

Like I said earlier, this is one of 2 events I look forward to every year and I’m already ready for next year!

Joseph’s Lullaby

It’s Christmas day, I love this day, I love spending the day with family. I love the entire Christmas season. I love the lights, the Christmas tree, the songs, etc. But my most favorite part about the Christmas season is watching little kids. They have this awe struck look about them during Christmas, when they look at lights on a tree or see Santa. It’s all about the magic of Christmas to them, they are still too young to comprehend what this day is truly about…to them it’s about the magic! Now that I have children (that’s still weird to say..usually a first time parent will have a child, not children) I get to experience this on a whole new level. It’s my children that will get to experience the magic and I get to help show it to them. I get to see their face light up when they see the lights on the Christmas tree turn on, or see Santa or who knows what else. This year our boys are a little too young, but next year will be a fun year!

As much as I love Christmas and the fun it brings, we tend to forget what this day is really about. We get so wrapped up in gifts, where we’re going and what we’re doing, we forget why we celebrate this day. Christmas is the day we celebrate the birth of Christ, the Messiah!

Unlike any other baby, the one born that night in Bethlehem was unique. He was not created by a human father and mother. He is God, the Son. This is why Christmas is called the incarnation, a word which means “in the flesh.” In the birth of Jesus, the eternal, all-powerful and all-knowing Creator came to earth in the flesh. God sent His Son, Jesus, into the world to be born. His birth brought great joy to the world. Shepherds, wise men, and angels all shared in the excitement of knowing about this great event. They knew this was no ordinary baby. The prophets had told of His coming hundreds of years before. The star stopped over Bethlehem just to mark the way for those who were looking for this special child.

Luke 2: 4-19 says:

“So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord.

This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.” Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.”

When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.” So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.”

I want my children to grow up and know what the meaning of Christmas is. I don’t want them to get so wrapped up in the gifts and Santa that they forget why we celebrate this day. But — at the same time — I want them to experience the “magic” as I was saying earlier. There is a fine line there and I honestly don’t know if the two go together or not.

The one thing I love about Christmas that always helps me remember what the day is about is hearing Christmas songs. Away In A Manger, O Holy Night, Santa Claus is Coming to Town (just kidding on that last one) but I have a new favorite Christmas song I think. I heard this for the first time this year and loved it. I don’t know if it was the fact that I am a new parent or what but Mercy Me has a song called Joseph’s Lullaby. You hear a lot of songs about Mary’s perspective on the birth of Christ, but you don’t hear a lot of songs about Joseph and how he was feeling when his son, the Christ child, was born. As a parent you hold your baby tight and want to protect them from the world and any harm that may come to them. What was Joesph feeling? What was he thinking when he held his son, the Savior, for the first time. Joseph was holding his baby boy, a baby he was supposed to protect from the world but does he comprehend what is going to happen down the road? His little baby boy is the King of Kings. How do you comprehend that? But for that moment, holding him for the first time, he was just his son, just his baby boy. One of the lines in the song says this, “I believe the glory of heaven is lying in my arms tonight. Lord I ask that He, for just this moment, simply be my child.” You have to think that Joseph had the weight of the world on his shoulders knowing that his child was the chosen one. But at that moment, I’m sure he just wanted to hold his child.

Here are the lyrics to the song Joseph’s Lullaby by Mercy Me

Go to sleep my Son
This manger for your bed
You have a long road before You
Rest Your little head

Can You feel the weight of Your glory?
Do You understand the price?

Or does the Father guard Your heart for now
So You can sleep tonight?

Go to sleep my Son
Go and chase Your dreams
This world can wait for one more moment
Go and sleep in peace

I believe the glory of Heaven
Is lying in my arms tonight
But Lord, I ask that He for just this moment
Simply be my child

Go to sleep my Son
Baby, close Your eyes
Soon enough You’ll save the day
But for now, dear Child of mine
Oh my Jesus, Sleep tight