I’m free to drive…and a realizaion

Last Thursday I had a 2 week check-up with my OB after having my c-section. Everything looks great, the incision is healing nicely and the pain is bearable. She said as long as I’m not taking the pain pill and just the prescription Ibuprofen then I can drive…WAHOO! I only take the actual pain pill once every other day or so and its only at night so I’m good. Anyway, I haven’t really driven but maybe once or twice to the store since July! That’s 3 1/2 months people. I’ve felt like Driving Miss Daisy forever having to depend on others to take me places, and if you know me, you know I hate it!

Saturday I left Jonathan at home with the boys alone, and while they had their own little adventure, I got to venture out to see my nephew play football which I was pretty excited about. While on my way to the game, driving by myself, it hit me…”I’m all alone”. It was a very weird feeling. It wasn’t a feeling of “I’m all alone, I’m so lonely, woe is me”. It was more of a surreal feeling of “I’m alone, there is no one else here”…make any sense or is it just sounding like it makes sense in my head?! For the last 8 months I have carried 2 little bambinos with me everywhere I went. They heard everything around me, they heard when my stomach growled, my heart beat and felt every movement I made. They were always there. I watched what I put in my body so I could keep them as safe as possible and had to watch what I did with my body (ex: bed rest) so I could keep them in there longer. Like I said, it was just a surreal feeling of “I’m alone again”, not a sad feeling, just a feeling. But that is the one thing that I will miss about being pregnant…knowing that they are always there and safe inside my tummy!

Fall is here!!

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Fall is here, I am so excited! Fall is my favorite time of year…the crisp, cool air and the lack of humidity. It’s great! I love the fact that you can go out to the mailbox and not lose 10 pounds from water loss by sweating (and lets face it, that’s about all I did outside this summer – mailbox and back). I love fall the colors and decor, the great smells that fill your home (although most of the time its from a candle or my wonderful scentsy warmer!) and of course Thanksgiving which marks the beginning of a wonderful holiday season. But this fall will be the best fall I’ve experienced thus far…our boys will be here! We will get to celebrate Thanksgiving with two new beautiful boys in our family, I can’t wait!

How about you, what do you look forward to most this time of year?

Fall TV line up

This probably goes without saying, but I am a little excited about this falls TV line up. Not only because I have to put up with horrible daytime TV all day long and when 7:00 rolls around I’m so ready for prime time TV, but because some of my favorite shows are back for a new season. Here are some of my favorite shows I’m looking forward to this season.

Monday:

House (ch. 4 Fox) – I’ve watched this show for years, I love the diagnostic aspect of the “medical drama”. Even though most of the show is unrealistic, its still good!

Quints By Surprise
(TLC) – So this one isn’t technically “Prime Time” TV since it’s on a cable network but I like it. It premiered a few weeks ago and is similar to the old seasons of John and Kate Plus 8, but better! She’s not rude or degrading to her husband and he actually helps out. The show is about a couple from Austin, TX (maybe that’s why we like them, they are Texans) who have an older daughter, I think 6 or 7, and then have a set of quintuplets. If you haven’t seen it, you should try to catch it sometime.

Tuesday:

The Biggest Loser (Ch. 5 NBC) – Another one of those reality TV shows, but this one is different because people are actually changing their lives. Its amazing to see how they transform their bodies and what they look like at the end of the season. The only thing is (and I don’t know why) but I usually end up eating a bowl of ice cream while watching this show. It’s typically the only time I eat ice cream (well at home), hmmm.

Glee (Ch. 4 Fox) – This is a new show that I have started watching. It’s basically a musical turned TV show. I’m not necessarily hooked on this show, its just good and if I catch it then great.

Parenthood (Ch. 5 NBC) – This is a show that premiered last season and Jonathan and I have both started watching it. It puts a funny spin on family and parenthood.

Wednesday:

Let’s face it, there is absolutely nothing on Wednesdays to watch. This is when I catch up on all the shows that I wasn’t able to watch earlier in the week or later the week before that are recorded on our DVR.

Thursday: AKA, my medical soaps night and the one night of the week that between 8:00-10:00 you don’t disturb me. So basically Jonathan will become a single parent between these hours on Thursday nights! Ok, I may feed one of the boys if they are just that hungry, I’m not that mean. 😉

The Office (Ch. 5 NBC) – This show is kind of a hit or miss with me. Overall I love the show, it’s funny, but there are episodes that are just plain dumb. This is the final season with Michael (Steve Carrell) and it will be interesting to see how they write him off the show. It will also be interesting to see how the show continues without him next season…it could either do great or be a complete flop.

Grey’s Anatomy (Ch. 8 ABC) – I am stoked that this show is coming back on next week!! I can’t wait to see what all happens after the season finale last season. This is my take on what happened last season. So at the beginning of the season they bring in basically a whole new cast and the viewers didn’t really like the new characters so what do they do, get rid of them and kill them all off. There are a few of the new characters that were some viewer favorites and they kept them. It will be interesting to see what happens next!!

Private Practice (Ch. 8 ABC) – This spin off of Grey’s Anatomy has become a hit and one of my top favorite shows. The season finale last season was intense and they killed off one of the main characters. I was shocked but last season was the season of killing off characters from shows…it seems that every show I watched killed off at least one person, geeze. A lot is going to change at Oceanside Wellness this season, tune in and find out what, I know I am!

I can’t wait for Monday night to get here!!

Fun trip to maternity observation – 29 weeks

The boys are already giving me gray hairs! Really, you should see all the gray hairs on my head…I think I’ll have to go visit Valerie after they are born for a color change. Anyway, here’s what the boys have been doing lately.

H-diddy and I-diddy are always VERY active little boogers and are moving constantly, day and night. On Monday they were moving so much they were having a territory struggle in my belly and you could see it on the outside (more on the struggle going on later-I’ll announce the winner). Well on Tuesday they were still pretty active and kicking me all day long. Wednesday they weren’t as active and I though maybe they were just tired from moving like crazy the couple days before. I-diddy is still active throughout this whole time, he moves a lot! He’s the one that is in a different position every sonogram we have. Anyway, H-diddy was the quiet one. He is normally pretty active too, he’s been the one taking over the all the space up until this point, he had basically shoved I-diddy over in to a corner and took the rest of the room. So when I didn’t feel him move as much it was weird. I decided to give him another day or so to see if he was just sleepy. By Thursday evening he still wasn’t doing a whole lot. Don’t worry, I had felt him move the entire time, just very infrequently. I tried everything they say to do, drink something cold, sweet, lay down..all of it and nothing made him move more. Friday morning when I woke up I ate a sweet bowl of cereal and waited for them to move (which is their most active time of the day) and not much happened so that’s when I decided to cal my OB. I figured she wouldn’t be in yet (she usually does surgery on Friday mornings) so I talked to the nurse and expected her to say I’ll call you back after my Dr. got in. She said to go ahead and go down to the maternity observation so they could monitor me and just check everything out. She called down there and they were expecting me.

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Since Jonathan was at work in Dallas already I had my mom drive me up to the hospital (since I don’t drive due the fact that I could pass out at any minute) and Jonathan met us there. They hooked me up to the monitor to monitor the boys’ heart rates and any contractions I was having. The boys’ heart rates were good but the nurse said they were still a little too young to tell some of the other things they look at in the heart rates, etc (not sure what else they look for). She came in the room and asked “Are you feeling those contractions your having?” – HA “Yes I do, well I feel most of them, it depends on how many you are seeing.” So after all that she called my doctor to tell her about everything they had found out while monitoring me and I could here her tell my Dr. “She’s having contractions every 4 minutes. do you want me to give her a shot of terbutaline?” I heard that and was in the room saying “NO” and as soon as I could say that I heard the nurse say “oh ya we don’t want to give that to her then.” My Dr kindly reminder her I have a history of SVT and other heart arrhythmias. if you have a history of those you don’t want to give them Terbutaline because the side effects are all cardiac side effects.

Remember that fetal fibronectin test (the “glue” test) that I had done about 5 weeks ago, well my Dr. had them do that again and then do a sonogram (a BPP biophysical profile). A biophysical profile is a simple, painless test used during pregnancy to assess your baby’s well-being — specifically, whether he’s getting enough oxygen in the womb. It’s typically done if you’ve gone past your due date, or sometime in your third trimester if you’re having a high-risk pregnancy. Its a detailed ultrasound to observe your baby’s body movements, muscle tone (flexing of the arms and legs), and breathing movements (the baby’s ability to move his chest muscles and diaphragm), and the amount of amniotic fluid surrounding him.

Everything with both tests turned out ok, the fetal fibronectin test was negative again and the BPP was good. The resident doing the sonogram did find out that more than likely the reason I’m not feeling Baby A move as much is because he is basically stuffed down into the corner of my belly while Baby B is taking up most of the room. Baby B is a lot lower than he as been too so it’s not like they two babies are running out of room yet, there’s plenty of room up top, they are just choosing not to use it. B is kind of sitting like a pretzel, he’s all curled up with his butt in the middle right below my belly button and he head is over on my side while his feet are up by his head – crazy! So I-diddy is finally taking back his space and pushing H-diddy out of the way now -payback! Both boys were being kind of lazy and still weren’t moving as much as they normally do on the sonogram but since they look ok they said it would be alright. As they get bigger and I get further along I’m expecting them to run out of room and not feel them as much.

I will have another sonogram on Wednesday at my perinatologist appointment so we’ll find out their weights and see how much more they’ve grown, and what new position I-diddy has gotten himself into!

So there you have it, my very very long explanation of events from yesterday. 8 more weeks!! But whose counting?

28 week OB appointment

I had my 28 week OB appointment on Friday and it went well. I got to drink the horrible tasting, super sweet, pure glucose drink for my gestational diabetes screening and then had my blood drawn an hour later. I don’t anticipate hearing about the results until my appointment next month, unless of course I failed the test. If I failed then I’ll have to drink even more and do a 3 hour glucose tolerance test. I also got to get a shot at this visit. I’m about to get medical on you so bear with me…..But, apparently I am Rh Negative so I got a Rhogam shot…or Rho(D) Immune Globulin which is a solution of IgG anti-D (anti-RhD) antibodies that bind to, and lead to the destruction of, fetal Rh D positive red blood cells that have passed from the fetal circulation to the maternal circulation. Therefore, in an Rh negative mother it can prevent sensitization of the maternal immune system to Rh D antigens, which can cause rhesus disease (Rh incompatibility) in the current or in subsequent pregnancies.

My Dr. did a sonogram and the boys still look good, the heartbeats were good, fluid levels were good and they are measuring like they should. We’ll get the more accurate measurements with weights, etc on Sep 1 when we go see the perinatologist. Baby A (Hayden) is still head down and Baby B (Ian) has turned breech again, the last four sonograms he has been in a different position, I think he likes breech the best since he’s in that one the most. We talked about delivery and have decided to go ahead and do a c-section for sure. We’ll wait to schedule it until I get further along..if I make it, it will be scheduled at 37 weeks. We just both agreed that it would be best for me to have a c-section instead of try a vaginal delivery. She said with twins, usually what happens is when baby A is head down (like ours is) he/she will deliver vaginally just fine but then baby B will usually get into trouble of some sort so they end up with a c-section. That combined with my heart, we decided it would be best. I also had her promise me she would deliver our boys. I don’t want anyone else delivering them!

As far as my cervical length and bed rest goes, nothing has changed. My cervix is about the length it was when I saw her last and I’m still on bed rest. I do have permission to go to the pool but a long as I only float, which is all I do anyway. When I’m in the pool I don’t have one contraction so when I told her that, she said “sure you can go…just no swimming laps or anything” I can also go out to eat every once in a while, but other than that I’m supposed to stay on the couch/bed with “minimal” activity. No cleaning, working, etc.

Since I see the perinatologist once a month as well, that appointment and my monthly OB appointment end up being every 2 weeks. So my Ob said as long as someone is seeing me every two weeks then I don’t need to see her every 2 weeks yet. At about 32 weeks (my next appointment with her) she said she will probably start seeing me weekly.

So there you have it, we’ll have another appointment update in a few weeks from our perinatologist appointment but until then, here is another belly shot for you. I realized after I took the picture that I was wearing the same outfit as the last picture I posted. What can I say, I don’t have many clothes that fit anymore and I’m not exactly allowed to go shopping!

28 weeks with twins

There’s not much difference in the size of my belly in the pictures but I can definitely tell a difference!

Baby Shower #1

We had a baby shower this past weekend for me and the boys and I can honestly say I have never felt so loved! The gifts and “blessings” we received from everyone was amazing and will help us tremendously with the boys. There is so much a baby needs and we have that times TWO…two cribs, two car seats, a double stroller, two bouncy seats, two adorable little butts to diaper, two mouths to feed, etc. It can get a little expensive so every little bit helps!!

I want to thank Jen, Kara, Evie, my aunt Linda and aunt Gwen for giving us the baby shower, I can’t begin to express my gratitude to you guys and how much Jonathan and I both appreciate your hard work – Love you guys!

Here’s a picture of me with the wonderful hosts:
me with the hosts

All the tasty food they prepared:
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And even a diaper cake made by Evie, which included something like 190 diapers – that’ll last us about what 10 days?!
me with the cake

Jen also put together this “blessings tree” where people could write down some advice or a prayer for us. I’ve enjoyed looking over some of them and will finish looking at the rest soon. Thanks Jen, it was a great idea.
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We have another shower coming up in a few weeks and then I think we should be all set! Then we just have to wait for the boys appearance. Hopefully not too soon though. If all goes as planned and I make it to 37 weeks we have roughly 9 weeks left!! Crazy isn’t it.

Now, I’m off to write some thank you notes.

Casa de Blundell Website Update

When Jonathan and I got married we started the website www.casadeblundell.com which hosts our two blogs. We really haven’t done a good job at keeping it updated but since I have some time on my hands these days I decided to redesign the website and give it a new look. We updated the content, which was several years old, and added some things such as a page for the twins. Take a look at the new site and let me know what you think. I think it looks pretty good if you don’t mind me saying so myself.

Portion for Orphans

Last night my sister-in-law, Kara, had a benefit dinner for Portion for Orphans. All tips given to their wait team will be given straight to Portion for Orphans to provide daily necessities and medical needs for children around the world. It was a great opportunity to learn more about Portion for Orphans and what your tip money can do to bring hope to children in need.
After the event she sent us a text and told us they got about enough money to feed and diaper a child in Kenya, India, or China for 1 year. If only it were that cheap to feed and diaper a child for a whole year here!

All photos courtesy of portion for orphans

Portion for Orphans exists to fulfill three primary goals:

* Raise public awareness about orphans worldwide
* Improve the quality of care provided to orphans
* Promote physical and spiritual development of orphans by offering training and educational support to their caregivers


“Raising society’s awareness of orphans and the critical problems they experience is the first step towards becoming compassionate to them and acting to solve their problems. Through visits to orphanages around the globe and first-hand interactions with orphans and their caregivers, we heighten our own awareness of the numerous challenges that orphans face each day. Portion for Orphans relies on informational events, public speeches, as well as printed and online publications to distribute alarming information about orphans to individuals and organizations who have the ability to become a part of the solution to their problems.

By partnering with supporters and volunteers, Portion for Orphans strives to improve the lives of orphaned children by meeting their physical, educational, emotional, spiritual, and vocational needs. Face-to-face contact with children at supported orphanages enables Portion for Orphans to accurately assess and prioritize their problems in order to determine their most vital needs. On a case-specific basis, Portion for Orphans volunteers take an active, personal approach to finding solutions and bringing together the resources required to meet the urgent needs of children and orphanages.”

Bed Rest

A week ago today my OB took my off work and was told to “take it easy”. I had been having contractions off and on starting at about 19 weeks and I was told to take it easy and call my doctor is I have 6 or more in an hour. Last weekend (22 weeks) I started having more regular contractions and by Wednesday I was having 6-8 an hour so I called her and she said to come in. She checked my cervix and it still looked long and closed so she was happy with that. She put me on the monitor to check my contractions and one of the babies heart rates (she doesn’t have a double monitor, that’s why we only checked one baby). I was having contractions every 5 minutes or so and Baby A was moving so much that we could hardly get a heartbeat. He moved the entire time I was on the monitor, which is pretty normal for him, he moves regularly throughout the day. My doctor made the comment of how active he was and one of the MA’s that was in there looked at me and asked, “does he move like that all day?” My asnwer, “yep, but luckily I don’t feel all of those movements…and that’s just one of them. The other one likes to move at night when this one is calm.”

After she monitored me and saw the contractions, she told me to go home, take it easy and I’m off work. She did a urine culture to see if I had a bladder infection because sometimes that can cause contractions. So I went home and layed on the couch. She never told me I was on bed rest at that time, she did mention that she may put me on bed rest, but not at that point. All weekend I was having contractions and Monday I called to get the results of the urine culture, which did show a mild bladder infection so she started me on an antibiotic to take and when I talked to her I mentioned that I was still having the contractions just as frequently and even throughout the night while sleeping. She told me to come in that day so she could check my cervix again and do a test to see if the contractions are doing anything, like pre-term labor. My cervix was still long and closed and she did the test, a fetal fibronectin test. Fetal fibronectin is a protein that acts as a “glue” during pregnancy, attaching the amniotic sac — the fluid-filled membrane that cushions your baby in the uterus — to the lining of the uterus. It is often present in cervical secretions during early pregnancy, but also shows up later in pregnancy, about one to three weeks before labor begins. A positive fetal fibronectin test is a clue that the “glue” has been disturbed and you’re at increased risk of preterm labor. I will go back to see her on Friday for my monthly OB visit and will get the results of the test at that time. I did find out, however, that Baby B (Ian) is no longer breech so they are both head down now. But that could change next week too, he could flip back.

I will be 24 weeks tomorrow and that is a milestone in pregnancy because that is the point of viability for a fetus. At 24 weeks a fetus has a 50/50 chance of survival if they are born now. We went on a tour of the NICU at Baylor last weekend and they told us in their NICU babies born at 24 weeks have a 75% chance of survival. Even though that is a good percentage, I still don’t want them here yet, they aren’t done cookin yet!

My doctor did mention starting me on some medications to stop the contractions, but with my history of cardiac issues, she doesn’t really want to unless its a MUST. And, since my cervix isn’t shortening yet, it’s not a must. Tocolytics, or drugs that stop contractions, are known to have cardiovascular side effects and in someone that already has those issues, it’s not a good combination. But again, if I needed them, I would take them. She called and talked to my perinatologist, high risk doctor, and they both agreed at this point the best thing to do is for me to be on bed rest…so here I am, on bed rest. She hasn’t told me exactly what my restrictions are for bed rest, but I’ll find out Friday. I think it’s more of a modified bed rest, where I’m supposed to stay off my feet as much as possible, no working, cleaning, shopping, etc but I can still get up to shower, take a ride in the car, walk around the house some, etc. My dreams of that may be shattered on Friday, but we’ll see. I’m hoping she says I can still go and relax in our pool, that’s taking it easy!

We are also meeting with a pediatrician on Friday before my appointment with the OB. I worked with this doctor some when I was at Children’s and liked her. She was good with the kids, parents and knows her stuff. I really don’t want a pediatrician that doesn’t have any hospital experience, other than residency and being in the medical field, I am going to be REALLY picky when it comes to picking a pediatrician for our babies. She has years of hospital experience and since I worked with her some I know she knows how to handle serious medical issues that may come up….you always want to be prepared and you don’t want to pick a pediatrician for your child and then when they get really sick, you find out they don’t know how to handle it. This doctor is in a practice with two other ladies and one of the other doctors was a doctor at children’s as well, while I didn’t work with her as much, I did some and liked her too. So we will meet with her and get to see the office/staff, ask some questions and Jonathan an meet her. I have pretty much made up my mind that she’ll be the boy’s doctor but I still want to meet with her because working with her as a resiratory therapist on a professional level and having her as MY children’s doctor are two very different perspectives.

Ok, I think this long enough of a post but I’ll leave you with a picture of my resting buddy…
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Boy Blundy

I am a lucky, lucky woman to be married to this man. This man is my best friend, a wonderful husband and one of the best men I know. He is going to make an amazing father and I can’t wait to see him in action. He has always been good about doing things to help me out around the house. When our house was on the market, he was great with helping me clean and get it ready for a showing. He helps do the dishes most nights after dinner, he does a lot of the cooking, and helps out with the laundry…and lets face it, who likes to do laundry

The last month or so since I haven’t really been able to do much and am supposed to be “taking it easy”, he has really had to step up and take over doing the majority of the house work and everything else that needs to be done before the babies get here. He has painted the babies room and our room, all by himself! Put the second crib together, hung curtain rods for me, done a lot of the house work and laundry and spent like 3 hours in our backyard pulling all the massive weeds that had taken over. All the while, I lay on the couch! I feel bad that all this has landed on him and I really wish I could have helped him paint or pick the weeds and clean the house or do laundry, but apparently that’s more than I’m supposed to be doing….

He does all this without complaining too and I can’t thank him enough!! So thank you for all your hard work and I love you!