18 month check up

The boys had their 18 month well check up a week or so ago and they both look great.  They have both gained weight and grown an inch or more taller.  Here are their stats:

Hayden: 28 pounds, 8 ounces and 33.5 inches tall

Ian: 23 pounds, 5 ounces and 32.5 inches tall

They are learning and growing just as they should.  The only thing we are going to watch is their language development.  They are a little behind on talking, but our pediatrician isn’t too worried about them. Boys tend to talk later than girls in general and the fact that they are multiples is another strike against them.  And, lastly we are teaching them sign language so with them being able to get what they want that way, why would they need to talk. Within the last week Ian has started trying to say a few words (sock, yucky and ball) and Hayden as started trying to say ball as well.  I’m not worried about them at all, they will talk in their own time!

We are going to try to wean Hayden off his reflux medicine and see how he does.  We aren’t about to touch Ian’s reflux meds, he’s staying on his Prevacid!

It will be interesting to see how much they grow in the next 6 months for their 2 year check up.

 

Easter

I am a little late on the Easter post, but better late than never, right?  This Easter was a little different for us in that we didn’t go to church on Sunday morning. Gaaaaasp! Instead, we went to the Saturday evening service at our church (see, we still went to church). We knew the boys were going to be out and their nap schedules would be all thrown off on Sunday, so we decided to just let them sleep in on Sunday morning.

We went to Jonathan’s parents house for lunch on Sunday and the boys hunted for easter eggs in the backyard in-between rain showers.  Hayden was definitely into finding the easter eggs, Ian on the other hand could care less.  He was more interested in the balloon in the backyard or going in and out of the sliding door on the patio.  He liked the fact that he could make it up the big step all by himself…so he went up the step, down the step, up the step, down the set, over and over again.

  Hayden
   Ian

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The boys love to play the piano at grandma and grandpa’s house, so of course they had to give us a mini recital.

After lunch we went out to my brothers gym in Flower Mound (Best Gymnastics) and met my aunts and cousins there for some play time and another easter egg hunt.  The boys had a blast running around and playing on the trampolines and in the big foam pit.  The easter egg hunt wasn’t a huge hit with them, but they did find a few easter eggs.  Hopefully next year they will be a bit more into it.  I didn’t get too many pictures f the easter egg hunt because I was too busy chasing after the boys and making sure they didn’t fall or run into anything.

   Hayden and Uncle Brad in the foam pit
    Ian sliding into the pit
   Hayden sliding into the pit
   Hayden deciding what to do next
   Ian about to climb on the mat
   Hayden
   Ian

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It was a fun day had by all and a day of reflection for us as we celebrated the resurrection of Christ and the price he paid for us.

 

1 Fish, 2 Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish…


Both Jonathan and I were off work for Good Friday (I am always off on Fridays) so we decided to take the boys to the aquarium.  They are still a little too young to really enjoy it, but the did like looking at everything – fish, penguins, birds, reptiles, monkey’s – wait, monkey’s at the aquarium?! Ya, that’s what I said…but yes, there were monkey’s at the aquarium.

I haven’t been to the aquarium since I was little, so needless to say it has changed quite a bit since my last visit.  This is the only picture I have of the boys in front of the aquarium, and its out of focus! The best part of the trip was watching the boys faces when they saw something swim by.  I wish I could have captured every facial expression, but unfortunately I was unable to. I think when the boys are a little older, they will like and appreciate the aquarium more.  Either way, it was a fun experience and any new adventure and time spent with my boys is time well spent.  Here are some of my favorite photos of the boys from our trip to the aquarium.

    Ian
    Hayden

18 Months Old

18 months old – the is the best I could get when 2 toddlers want to go in opposite directions!

Where has the time gone?! My boys can’t possibly be a year and a half already – 6 more months and they’ll be TWO! What a difference a few months makes. There is a huge difference in the boys from the 12 month post I wrote, even from the 15 month post I wrote. In the last few months it has become apparent our baby boys are no longer babies and are turning into little boys.

They are climbers, thats for sure. In the last month, they have master the art of climbing – climbing on the couch, ottoman, chairs and even on top of the dinning room table. Hayden is the instigator when it comes to climbing. We will turn our backs and next thing you know, he’s on the table or he has pushed a chair over to the bar in the kitchen and is playing with stuff on the kitchen bar.

Hayden sitting on the dinning room table
Ian sitting on the ottoman
Hayden climbs up to the bar
my favorite – climbing and standing on top of their firetrucks

We got rid of their highchairs and they are now in booster seats at the table, mainly because 2 highchairs took up too much room in our kitchen. They are both getting great at using utensils when they eat. If they go into hunger strike mode, sometimes just giving them a fork will break the strike. They are getting to where they want to hold cups when they drink instead of us holding it (when we are at a restaurant), forget the fact that they dribble water all down the front of their shirt- they are doing it by themselves, that’s all they care about.

We have taught the boys some sign language to help ease the frustration of them not being able to talk yet. They know the sign for more, milk and water (they rarely use water though). They have started talking some – mainly Ian. Hayden talks all day but nothing that you can understand. He has said quack for duck and cracker (not routinely). Ian will say ice, “nana” (banana), “nak” (snack), “go” (dog), “baf” (bath) and yesterday he tried to say “wa-er” (water). I think Hayden doesn’t feel the need to talk because Ian does all the talking and Hayden just goes along with it.

The boys have been playing together more and I love it when I see that. They love reading books and putting puzzles together. Ian would have us read 20 books before bed if we let him.

the boys “playing” together
Ian “reading” his books

They are now comprehending things we say to them and will follow simple commands from us. If we ask them to pick something up and bring it to us, they will…usually. Hayden will find the tiniest little string or piece of something on the floor, pick it up and bring it to us. It’s like he knows he’s not supposed to play with it and/or he hates stuff like that lying around on the floor (that’s my boy).

We won’t take the boys for their 18 month check up until the beginning of May so we won’t know their weights until then. I’ll have to fill you in once we get them. I can confidently say Hayden still weighs more than Ian and is probably 1/2 an inch taller.

Hayden

Hayden is still our strong willed child. He does things just to see if he can get away with it. He knows he’s not supposed to climb on things and will do it repeatedly after we tell him no, just to get a reaction, then laugh.

He is still a snuggle bug, but only when he wants to be. If he wakes up in the middle of the night, he will sit in the chair and snuggle with you. Speaking of waking up at night, the boy is an insomniac! He gets this trait from me, unfortunately. If you remember way back when, I posted on this very subject and if you want, you can read about it here. He goes in phases. He’ll go a week where he is up every night for about 2.5 hours just talking, laughing, playing, anything but sleeping. Then the next week, he’ll sleep just fine.

Hayden is a picky, picky eater…but I can’t complain, he is my child. I am a picky, picky eater myself. He pretty much eats carbs and cheese. He does like oatmeal so we squeeze that in sometimes. In order to get his veggies and some other sort of nutrients in the child, we still give him baby food if he won’t eat anything else. A few times a week we give them both a vanilla instant breakfast shake since it has a lot of vitamins and minerals in it, I purposefully stay away from the chocolate shake!

Just in the last week, Hayden has declared his love for TV. He will go to the ottoman and pull out a Baby Einstein or Sparkabilities DVD and bring it to us for him to watch. As soon as the DVD starts, he climbs up and plops himself down on the couch. We are trying to halt this new found love as much as possible because we don’t want them to sit in front a TV all day. They love to play outside so when he starts this, I’ve been trying to take them outside instead. I don’t know what we’ll do in the summer when its 110 degrees outside. I guess we’ll have to get a little wading pool for them to play in.

Hayden still loves his taggie and pacifier, but especially his taggie. He has started to tell us when he is ready for a nap or bedtime. He will grab his taggie and pacifier and point to his bed. He may not sleep all night, but he knows when he is tired and ready to go to bed. Jonathan says, “kind of like his momma.”

Ian

Ian tends to be our sensitive one and definitely has a sweet personality. He is also our musical one, we often see him in the backseat of the car bobbing his head to the music or dancing in the living room to music or even just dancing to the music in his head. He is our songbird.

Over the last week he has started trying to jump, although he hasn’t quite figured out how to get both feet off the ground at the same time. We have a feeling when we get back from our anniversary trip next week, he will be jumping 3 feet off the ground.

While Hayden tends to be a little more cautious, Ian is always going at full speed. Its not strange to find him running through the house or around the couch and kitchen table.

Ian prefers to be barefoot over having anything on his feet. If he has shoes on when you put him in the car, by the time you get him out they will be off, or at least 1 of them will be off. He still walks on his toes (with his toes curled under) sometimes, but not all the time.

When it comes to eating, he is our SLOW eater, but will venture out and try new foods. He typically eats more than Hayden , which is funny because he is the smaller one of the two. He is more likely to stick to eating with his hands more than a fork, but that is slowly changing as he gets used to using utensils more.

Ian loves books and loves to be read to. He will grab a book, walk over to you and then turn around for you to pick him up and put him in your lap so you can read him the book of his choosing.

He love his stuffed animals. He loves snuggling with a teddy bear or his Big Red Clifford Dog. The tree things Ian needs every night is a pacifier (which is a must), taggie and his clifford stuffed animal.

The boys are so much fun now that they are getting a little older and I can’t wait until they really start talking. Happy 18 months boys!!

Spring in Texas…

You never know what spring in Texas is going to bring.  We have had a heavy snow in April before (granted it was back in the 70’s or 80’s), we’ve had hot spring temperatures. We had a spring last year with very little rain and this spring we have had a record breaking amount of rain.  The one constant we count on in Texas are the storms.  And, its the one thing that makes me want to move out of this state! I am scared to death of tornadoes!! I keep telling Jonathan that if he wants to keep me in this house until we die, he needs to have an underground storm shelter put in the backyard.  I”M NOT KIDDING…if I had a spare $5,000-$10,000 I would have a company out here tomorrow digging a giant hole in my backyard, that’s how terrified of storms I am.  I hate being at home alone (especially at home alone with the boys) during a storm…even without a tornado threat. But when there is a chance of tornadic (is that a word?) activity, I am petrified and better NEVER be alone!

Last week we had a horrible tornado outbreak in the DFW area.  There were several cities hit and hundreds of homes destroyed.  I believe the total is up to about 17 confirmed tornadoes that day and by the grace of God, not one fatality. There were so many stories from people during the storms but the one that struck me the most was the story of the grandmother who was in the bathtub with her grandson and two other children she was watching. She was in the neighborhood not too far from our house that was hit and her house was destroyed (the only thing standing was just one portion of a wall).  She had her grandson in her lap and during the tornado she could feel him being pulled into the air and she was holding onto him by his ankles.  The most intriguing part of this story was that when her neighbors came out of their house to help her after the tornado, there was no bathtub in sight.  She and the kids were in the bathtub but it was no where to be found.  They don’t know if they flipped or if they were flung from the tub or what – it was gone! We will never know the mystery of the bathtub, but they were all alive and only had bumps and bruises.  Truly a miracle!

This story hit me so hard because the day of these tornadoes, my mom was at my house watching our boys, only a few miles from where this happened.  Both Jonathan and I were at work and she was by herself with our boys keeping them safe.  She did a great job and she is truly a stronger person than I would have been – I would have been balling like a baby if I was in the middle of all that!

The boys did remarkably well. They are still so young that they had no clue what was going on. They just thought that grammy may be a little crazy for making them play in the bathroom with their toys and wouldn’t let them out. Needless to say they didn’t get a nap that afternoon and were pretty cranky that evening. They were both up for a while around 1100 PM that night, from what I can only guess would be over tiredness and maybe they felt some of the stress from the day.

Luckily we didn’t get hit with the tornado or get any wind damage, but we did get quite the hail storm.  We had hail almost the size of a softball, but not quite that big.  We have a lot of roof damage, including a hole that went through the roof and into the decking.  So wel need a new roof and possibly new gutters, but other than that we are all okay.  Thankfully my mom had parked her car in our garage or she may have had some massive hail damage.

The thing I keep thinking about is that this is just the beginning of spring – we have a whole tornado season to get through! My stress level is going to go through the roof.  Since the storm, I have had several dreams nightmares of hiding from tornadoes and watching houses being destroyed – I don’t sleep soundly anymore.  I can honestly say it is enough to make me move – but then you see how colorado and ohio are having tornadoes too – you aren’t safe anywhere.  I hear Scotland doesn’t have tornadoes, maybe we’ll move there.  Make room Thomas and Olly, we’re coming to Scotland!

This is the hail we had that hit our house:

Ah hell

And, here is some of the roof damage we had:

3 of 6 #txwx #doh

At this point, since apparently Jonathan isn’t going to get me my storm shelter (I’m going to have to talk him into it!) all we can do is pray that we get through this season with no more tornadoes and I don’t get anymore gray hairs than I already have from stress! Amen

Perfect Spring Day…

Today started out much like any other typical Sunday.  We woke up, got everybody ready and headed to church.  After church we decided to try and get some photos of the boys in the bluebonnets.  We got a few but not really any keepers.  It was really bright outside and the ground was still wet and muddy.  We brought the boys home and put them down for their nap.

Hayden

Ian

After the boys woke up, we ate and just played around the house for a while. Jonathan has a new game with the boys where he pulls them around on an old dolly.  They absolutely love it!

A little later we decided to try and retake the boys pictures in the bluebonnets, this time turned out much, much better.

My Boys

Trying to run away from me

Hayden

Ian

After pictures, we went to the park and let the boys play for a while before coming home and putting the boys down for their 2nd nap. So much for that! Hayden didn’t want anything to do with a nap, while Ian slept for about an hour. I didn’t get any pictures of the boys at the park – I was too busy chasing them and making sure they didn’t break anything climbing up playground equipment.

After dinner, we went outside and the boys had a blast playing in the water in the bird bath. Needless to say, they were wet and dirty! So I just let them play more in the back and get as dirty as they want. I filled up the bird bath in the backyard with water and let them splash all they wanted.




A much needed bath was due and then a fun time reading books and playing with blocks before bedtime. I absolutely love days like this. I love spending time with my family and this was a perfect spring day in my book!
Family

My Wall Project

For almost a year and a half I have had no clue what to do with the boys room. The room is rather small and when you add 2 cribs in there, it is even smaller and crowded. So my dilemma (well 1 of 2 dilemmas) has been how to arrange the cribs that optimizes the space and gives them more room to play in there, especially now that they are older and playing A LOT more in there. Oh how nice it will be when they are old enough to move them into much smaller, toddler beds…and then bunk beds – but that’s another story for another day! Anyway, back to my dilemma, I have tried probably 3 different options on how the cribs are arranged. I’ve had them end to end on the same wall, the cribs on opposite walls from each other and now in an L shape in the corner. I think the L shape has worked the best as far as optimizing the space in the room, but the least aestheticly pleasing – I’ll just have to live with it.

               Nursery

So I have figured out what to do with the cribs, now onto dilemma #2 – the walls. We had this really cute tree decal that I put on the wall when the boys were itty bitty, but one of them decided to pull them down one day during their “nap”. Well I moved some things around and got that wall taken care of, it has their names in wooden letters on the wall. But there was still this big blank wall staring at me every time I walked into the room. It was driving me crazy because I had no clue what to do.

I was walking in Hobby Lobby one day and saw some of those vinyl lettering phrases and thought, that would be cool…so I found one that Jonathan and I really liked for their room. I came home and put it up – I loved it! The only problem is that our walls are textured and the paint we used on the walls is a semi gloss. Put those 2 together and vinyl letting does NOT stick to the wall. I was back to square one…..or was I? Since I really liked the phrase that I found, I decided to trace the letters and then paint them on the wall, viola!

If you know me, you know that when I decide to do something, I want it done yesterday. Well, the optimal time to do something like this is when the boys are sleeping. The boys sleep in the room I am painting…
So, it took me about 1-2 weeks to get it all painted. Once the letters were all done I added a few stars to it and then got some pictures printed that we had taken of the boys to put around the phrase. It turned out great!

I am in love with it and its something that can stay on the boys’ wall for a while and won’t have to be changed when they get a “big boy” room.

Here is what the wording alone looked like:

And, here it is with all the pictures around it:

Spring is here…

The warmer weather means we get to play outside.  Our boys love playing outside – especially Hayden.  When Hayden wakes up in the morning one of the first things he does when he comes into the kitchen is walk over to the back door to go outside.  My parents had a slide at their house and they gave it to us so the boys are learning to climb up the ladder and slide down.  Of course, they want to climb up the front of the slide so we are trying to teach them the correct way to get to the top of the slide.  They also like to swing and play with the bird bath we have in the back yard.  The other day it was in the 70’s here so we were able to play outside for about 45 minutes after I got home from work.  And of course, that gave me ample time to get some video of the boys.  So here is a video of the fun we had…its about 5 minutes long but I think the best part of the video is close to the end when the boys are interacting with each other.

oh boy…..

Ian on the go

We are in for it! The last few weeks Ian has been giving us a glimpse into the terrible 2’s…can it start as young as 15 months?! Wow….my sweet Ian has been turned into a toddler all of a sudden.  Example #1 – all because he didn’t get his way – one minute he was standing right next to me, the next minute, he was lying on the ground crying, partially screaming.  Example #2 – he didn’t want to go to bed, so he throws his head back and arches his back and cries/screams. But the best part was when he would quiet down in between screaming – when I wasn’t looking! Little booger would cry when I was looking at him, and when he realized I wasn’t looking, he would stop.  The second you give him what he wants, it’s all over as if nothing happened.

Well, this momma doesn’t play that game! The boys will learn that If I said no, I meant no, and screaming isn’t going to change my mind.  Also, if I can’t hold them this very second because I have to hold their brother who just smacked his head on the wall, they will have to wait. Even though I know this will mostly likely result in one or both of them throwing themselves on the floor and crying.  I am only 1 person

Then there’s Hayden…Jonathan was in their room putting their PJ’s on while I was fixing dinner and all of a sudden I hear this yelp, and it wasn’t from the boys.  Hayden bit Jonathan’s foot – hard! The boy has like 12 teeth, so he can bite down. He bit Ian’s finger one day…but in Hayden’s defense, Ian put his finger in his mouth.

The boys have also been trying our patience lately…just to see what they can get away with.  We have started using time-outs with them after they get 3 warnings.  Since they are 1, they get a 1 minute time out.  By doing this, we are hoping they learn cause and effect and that their actions have consequences – yes, we are starting them young, but that’s the best time to start.

I’m sure this is just a glimpse into what we are going to go through when they are older, but I’m ready for it!

15 months old

My boys are 15 months old, and my how they have grown in the last 3 months.  I am now doing the picture in the chair every 3 months instead of every month.

We took them for their 15 month check up and they are both doing great.  Gaining weight like they should and growing taller….but still taking after mom rather than dad in this area.

They had to get 2 shots each and boy they did NOT like it! We are going to start putting rice cereal in their milk (cow’s milk) because of their reflux.  We had to switch from Prevacid to Prilosec because it’s on back order from the manufacturer and it doesn’t work as well.  So we are keeping our fingers crossed that they get their act together soon so we can get our boys back on the stuff that works!

Other than the reflux, they are doing great with no other issues.  They are both running everywhere and getting into EVERYTHING….hence this photo!

  the boys helping momma put away their clothes

We finally had to break down and get those little latches that go on drawers so they can’t pull them out.  They love to get into the kitchen drawers and pull everything out.  I don’t mind this, but I’m afraid someone will accidently put one of our sharp paring knives in the drawer and they will stick their hand in and cut it. So they are no longer able to pull open the drawers – and they were not happy when they figured out they couldn’t do it anymore!

We’ve gone to the park a few times with the boys when the weather was nice, and they have so much fun.  They love sliding down the slide and swinging.  These boys love being outside any chance they get! They are going to have some fun this spring and summer when they are able to go outside everyday.  We may need to get a slide or something for them to play with in the backyard.

Hayden swinging
Ian swinging

The boys have their own distinct personalities, and I love it! I love that they aren’t exactly alike.

Hayden is a very caring little boy.  For example, the other day he went and picked up his taggie and Ian’s was laying next to it, so he picked it up and took it to Ian.  Then later that day he picked up his pacifier and gave it to Ian.  As sweet as he is, he also has a very stubborn streak. He is still a very curious little boy.  He likes to figure out how things work and loves to fill things up…shoes, cups, buckets, you name.  He will fill it up with anything he can find.  He was putting baby wipes in his shoes one day and put some blocks in my moms shoes the other day. Hayden does this thing with his foot.  He usually crosses his feet when he sits down and he has started doing this thing where he twirls his foot around in a circle, almost every time he sits down…its pretty funny.

Ian is a sweet boy too.  He loves to sit in your lap and snuggle…until he sees something that catches his eye, then he’s up and on the go.  If Hayden is upset at something, he will stop what he is doing and look at us as if he’s saying….”he’s upset, do something.”  Ian loves to run…he runs around the house all day. He is Mr. Fidgety….he is always playing with his hands.  Ian is a talker.  Hayden “talks” a lot too but not as much as Ian.  Granted I have no clue what either of them are saying, but they sure are talking.  They talk back and forth a lot like they are having a conversation with each other, but again, I have no clue what they are saying. Ian does say doggy – well his version of doggy, and now he will say nana for banana.

I am loving his stage that the boys are in and it is so much fun.  They are growing up really fast and they’ll be 2 before we know it!