Thank you

Mike Huckabee in Plano Texas

From Mike Huckabee:

Dear Faithful Friends,

Last night was a tough one for all of us. While Janet and I stood on the stage, we felt as if we were surrounded by a much larger family than our immediate family. We have been surrounded throughout the process by a large and growing family of faithful friends whose efforts in the campaign have humbled and amazed us day after day. I regularly wept or choked back tears just reading comments on the blog when I realized the sacrifices that so many have made for the campaign.

We had held out hope that we would win enough delegates to keep the contest going, but had vowed that if Senator McCain actually got the 1191 delegates, we would accept the will of the voters. In the end, the relentless hammering of the media that we “couldn’t win” influenced enough voters and while we campaigned long and hard in the final states, it simply wasn’t enough. I congratulate Senator McCain and will do what I can to assist him and influence him to take strong stands for issues that we conservatives cherish.

I don’t see the long journey having reached its destination, but merely taking a detour. As my Marine friend Clebe McLary says, “I didn’t lose–it’s just that the game ended before I got finished playing.”

In the immediate days ahead, we will be transitioning from campaign mode. For 14 months, there have been a lot of things put on hold in our lives. We have to join the many incredible people on our staff to figure out “what’s next?” But this much I can tell you—we want to stay in touch and start now building a platform to continue addressing issues that brought us together in the first place.

Throughout my life, I’ve found that there are sometimes three possible answers to our prayers–“Yes,” “No,” or “Not Now.” I would like to think our prayers were answered with a “Not Now.”

We will keep our website up and as we transition, will want to create a way to keep in touch and continue the battle for our families, our freedom, and our future. We also want to make certain we are doing everything we can to assist key Senate and House races around the country, in places where we feel we can make a difference. You can expect us to be very active online as we do this.

In the immediate time, we have to make sure that we pay all the bills of the campaign and end in the black, help our staff find ways to earn a living, and make sure that we don’t lose the momentum of the past 14 months, but instead follow the plan:

REFLECT, REST, RENEW, and RE-BOOT!

I really welcome your input and thoughts during these coming days. Pray for us as we seek wisdom as to what steps we take now. Despite what some have thought, we really didn’t have a “Plan B’ in the wings–we always thought we’d be in this until the inauguration in January of 2009!

God has been so good to us! We can never fully express our gratitude for all you have done and how you have touched and blessed our lives. I truly hope I didn’t let you down. I promise to you that I gave it all I had to the last minute and left it “all on the field.” What is more amazing is how you were willing to be “poured out” to the point of empty in order to be with us all the way. I stand amazed by it all and overwhelmed with gratitude.

We will dust off, pick ourselves up off the canvas, and answer the bell for the next round, whatever that may be. We love you all, and trust that the journey has just begun!

With tired bodies and grateful hearts,

Mike and Janet Huckabee

bummed…

I’m more bummed today that I was last night. I think everyone in the office is pretty bummed. Folks were either voting for Huckabee (very few) or Obama. Obama’s campaign lives on – but I think everyone was sad to see him lose in Texas.
Don’t know what’s in store for Huckabee or the next 9 months, 4 years or 8 years. Wait – 9 months till the general election?….. goodness!

I was reading last night in Everything Must Change before heading to bed and I thought this summary of Jesus may be similar to the hope people feel in their candidates. Sure, no candidate has all the answers. No candidate can please everyone but I think those that jump in behind a candidate feel there’s a sense of hope that this person will be different. This person will bring about change. I’m not really trying to compare political candidates to Jesus – but I’m saying that people are looking for a savior and I think we often confuse that with political leaders or celebrities or friends or loved ones. And when it doesn’t work out – we really feel let down by the candidate themselves, or maybe the other voters.

Maybe I’m just feeling down because I’ve never really been on the losing side of an election. My first presidential election was in 2000 and I supported Bush in 2000 and 2004 (the lesser of two evils by 2004).

Either way – I love this picture of Jesus that McLaren paints and the hope that Jesus brings with him.

I pictured Jesus, wandering through the villages of Galilee, walking among his own oppressed and dominated people, people who… had lost hope. Their hopelessness left them paralyzed and powerless between two primary schemes of despair – the violent despair of terrorist resistance or the resigned despair capitulation and collaboration with their powerful oppressors. He didn’t fix all their problems, even though many of them wanted him to and hated him when he didn’t. He didn’t organize any army or hatch a plot or design liberal democracy or create a new get-rich-quick business plan. He didn’t scapegoat anybody – if anything, he kept letting scapegoats off the hook, taking their side to the consternation of their hyperreligious critics.

Instead he simply let the people know he liked them – and so did God…

… And he did one other thing: he told the people something outrageous, something so familiar to us, so familiar to me that it is only in rare moments that I get a glimpse of how wild it really was. It wasn’t an if/then statement – if you do this and this and this, then you’ll get that result. That would have been more pressure, another chance to fall.

No, all he did was tell them that something was already true: the kingdom of God is here. Already.

Entitlement theory

So last week before our community group meeting, I grabbed some food for Laurie and I from the drive through of a local fast food restaurant that just happens to serve both Mexican food and fried fish. Yes, an interesting combination – you could say it was a Yum! idea.

Anyways, I waited my turn in line, paid for my food at the first window, waited a while longer and got my food at the second window.

I was asked if I needed any sauce. Being a Mexican and fried fish place I thought – well I have Mexican food, Laurie ordered chicken – you don’t put cocktail sauce or tarter sauce on chicken, “So no.” Bad mistake. Didn’t realize this, but Laurie likes the chicken at this particular restaurant because you can get tarter sauce to put on it. Also, I’m used to people throwing ketchup and such in the bag and I forgot to ask for it specifically – so no ketchup for her fries. Doh. Sorry about that babe.

We headed to the Nash’s ate our food and that was that. A day or so later I noticed there were two charges on our debit account. One for $11.97 (what they told us the price was) and one for $10. It didn’t make sense but I’ve seen things like this before. Someone types in the wrong amount on accident and then cancels it, but it takes another day or two for it to hit our account for some odd reason.

So I waited.

Finally yesterday nothing new had shown up so I decided to call the establishment and find out what was going on. Guess what — the *&@ #&*% *&#@ *&!% ^@&^ #!@ guy who worked at the drive thru window, took it upon himself to charge me for my food and then added on an additional $10 service charge. He must have worked for Ticketmaster in a previous life. Apparently he was adding this service charge/convenience charge/drive thru robbery on several customers cards without their acknowledgment.

I was assured by a manager that he was no longer working for their company and they were attempting to get the funds back. I thought, “Well yeah – You better get the funds back because I want my funds back!” (entitlement theory begins).

I was told she would talk with another manager and they would call me back.

Several hours later she called and asked if I could come in for a refund.

On the way home the entitlement theory began to go to work as I began to think of all the extra things I could ask for as a thank you for all my trouble. Free tacos, free fish, free meals, etc. etc.

I walked in with my theory in hand – and my bank statement print out. I asked for the manager and she walked up asked for my card and swiped it for the refund. “Sorry for your trouble. Thanks.” I said “Thanks” and she turned and walked away to go back to work.

“Wait a minute! What about ‘We’re sorry for your trouble sir. How about free tacos for a year? How about 10 free meals? What else can we do for you sir?’!!! Aren’t you going to try harder to keep my business?! What about my rights?! What about what YOU owe ME?!”

That sure sounded good in my head.

But then there was this other voice in my head that said, “Inverted. Inverted. Inverted. Inverted.”

And then I started thinking, “Everything Must Change.”

I guess if I’m going to teach it, I better believe it. And that “everything” will need to begin with me.

It can’t be about what someone owes me. It can’t be about what I’m entitled to. It can’t be about me, me, me.

If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will save it. – Mark 8:35

I wonder what Jesus might have done in this situation?

Weekend update

Well, I’m about to wrap up another Monday at work. It will be nice to be back home.
Laurie and I started the day off today feeling like we had just left work on Friday. Tired, exhausted and looking forward to a weekend. Too bad the weekend was all over.

She of course has it a bit rougher because she has to leave a full hour before I do and usually takes a good 30-min to an hour more than me to get ready. So while she’s having to drag herself out of bed at 5 a.m. – I’m still hitting snooze on my alarm clock and probably annoying the heck out of her (even though she won’t admit it — to me).

This weekend was a blur for sure. Friday night we enjoyed dinner at Bennigans and thanks to my membership in their e-mail club or whatever they call it I had a coupon for buy one entree’ get one free. So while we usually stick with the basic menu there we both enjoyed their mix and match meal. I had steak and salmon and Laurie had steak and chicken. Although after several broccoli bites (a must) and her baked potato, Laurie had little room for the main course.

After dinner we came home and watched Premonition with Sandra Bullock. A good movie. A number of twists to keep it interesting and not too predictable.

Then around 10:30 I had to rush off to meet Brian to set-up for the encounter 9 event, which was scheduled for 11:59 p.m. on Friday night. We had a great turnout and a great time. We finished the event around 1:30 a.m. and then a bunch of us made a stop at What-A-Burger for late night breakfast and more fun.

Saturday Laurie cleaned house and I headed to the “Jesus Dome” for a CWF show in Rockwall. We had a HUGE crowd Saturday night with close to 200 people in attendance and I would estimate that 60% of them were first timers. It was a great show and everything seemed to go without a hitch.

Sunday was church in the morning with Laurie having to work in the nursery. Sucked sitting by myself on my birthday – but whatcha gonna do? Luckily I had plenty of friends to sit with.

Laurie had 21 women from the church over Sunday afternoon for a Bible study kick-off so I took the dog Geocaching with me. Not much luck, but I got one done and Presley had a good time running all over the place.

After a full afternoon we headed to Mesquite for dinner with our parents. My mom made some of my favorites, Kings Ranch Casserole and Dump Cake for desert. We had a great time and Kara even stopped by before the evening was over.

After a full day we headed back to Red Oak and crashed not long afterwards wondering where in the world our weekend had run away to.

Quote of the day

love

“Anything will give up its secrets if you love it enough. Not only have I found that when I talk to the little flower or to the little peanut they will give up their secrets, but I have found that when I silently commune with people they give up their secrets also – if you love them enough.”

– George Washington Carver

To my Partner, my Best Friend & my Life

laurie playing indoor golf

Just over 9 1/2 months ago I pledged my love to Laurie before God and man. Today that pledge rings truer than ever:

In the presence of God and before our family and friends, I choose you Laurie to be my wife and I promise you these things: I will laugh with you in times of joy, and comfort you in times of sorrow. I will share in your dreams, and support you as you strive to achieve your goals. I will listen to you with compassion and understanding, and speak to you with encouragement. I will help you when you need it, and step aside when you don’t. I will remain faithful to you for better or worse, in times of sickness and health. You are my best friend, and I will love and respect you always.

My love for you Laurie grows deeper each and every day. Laurie you are truly my best friend and I have and always will love you!

Quote of the day

“In the first place, we should insist that if the immigrant who comes here in good faith becomes an American and assimilates himself to us, he shall be treated on an exact equality with everyone else, for it is an outrage to discriminate against any such man because of creed, or birthplace, or origin. But this is predicated upon the person’s becoming in every facet an American, and nothing but an American…There can be no divided allegiance here. Any man who says he is an American, but something else also, isn’t an American at all. We have room for but one flag, the American flag… We have room for but one language here, and that is the English language… and we have room for but one sole loyalty and that is a loyalty to the American people.”
Theodore Roosevelt 1907