Adventures in Fatherhood: Just me and the boys

Boys and I
The boys and I on their one month birthday

Well, it’s been just over eight weeks since the boys were born — and tomorrow is their two month birthday.

And like it or not, the powers that be have decided that eight weeks is plenty of time for a woman who’s had a C-Section to recover, so my wonderful Life is returning to work today.

To make things easier on the boys, I’ve opted to take vacation time this week to watch them by myself at home. And since our office is closed next week for the holidays, I’ll be at home with them a second week before our moms take over after the start of the year.

It should be an interesting two weeks! I’m thrilled to get to spend so much time with the boys, but I know it’s going to be far more work than I realize.

Laurie’s suggested I’ll probably do more work during the next two weeks than I ever would have done at the office — she’s probably right.

When I first agreed to it, the boys had just come home and they were sleeping 95% of the time. So as the time’s been getting closer, I’ve been looking forward to all the “extra work” I’d get done on some of my projects.

But as the time’s gotten even closer — the boys are becoming more and more active and down time is becoming less and less.

So… if you have something waiting on my to-do list… I’ll do my best – but I’m not promising anything right now.

And you may be hearing/seeing a lot from me online… or hardly nothing at all.

Who knows? We’ll see how it goes and keep our fingers crossed that I won’t be calling for help after the first few hours.

Adventures in Fatherhood – Live blogging tonight

So after a rough week for My Life and the boys at home, I told Laurie to take an Ambien tonight and let me handle the night time feedings.

She gladly accepted, with the condition that I would go to bed once she wakes up in the morning and sleep as long as possible during the day tomorrow.

Are we crazy? Probably, but I figured I’d let you in on the fun tonight by live-blogging as we go.
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Our health care system is whack

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Facepalm | Photo by migomes

I’ve never had too many dealings with doctors and health insurance.

The last few years I’ve done my annual checkup/physical every December and I may go see the doctor to get a prescription for a cold or something similar.

And I’ve had several times where I was told by a dentist or doctor’s office that a procedure would be “covered” by my insurance, only to find out later that I would be paying out of pocket for the majority of the cost.

But with the boys, I’m seeing a whole ‘nother side of the health care system.
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What would you buy for your babies?

Happy Turkey Day from ididdy and hdiddy
The boys ready for Turkey Day | Photo by Jonathan Blundell

We’ve had a lot of people ask what the boys would like for Christmas.

We’re so thankful for all that we’ve been given already and we honestly can’t think of anything they need other than diapers (Pampers – size newborn or 1) and formula (still trying to figure that out).

But as new parents we might be missing some great innovations in parenting.

So I’m curious — if you had $100 to spend on your baby (or babies) what would you buy? Any “must haves?”

Use Amazon’s Baby Store as a pricing guide and let me know what you come up with in the comments below. You don’t have to spend all $100 – but be sure you keep your shopping list under $100.

As an added bonus, I’ll pick one random comment at the end of the week and send that person a copy of my novel, St. Peter’s Brewery.

Adventures in fatherhood – All hands on deck

As a parent of twins… there are days you really wish you had four arms.

And then there are mornings like today… when you wish you had eight.

5 a.m. feeding
5 a.m. feeding

2 boys.

3 spit-ups.

1 dirty bib.

1 new outfit.

1 nasty vomit that landed right in poor Hayden’s face 🙁

1 frantic dad trying to find his aspirator to finish cleaning him up.

Yup, eight arms would have been nice this morning…. that and an extra 45 minutes.

Of course it could always be worse

Adventures in Fatherhood: Noticing the other

Two wide awake boys
Two wide awake boys | Photo by Jonathan Blundell

It’s so interesting to see how the two boys respond to one another.

At a few days more than two weeks old, it’s hard to definitively tell whether or not they realize there’s another brother/baby in the room.

Sometimes they’ll sleep right through the other one’s crying.

Sometimes they’ll sound as if they’re talking to one another with grunts and moans.

The other day we placed them both in the Pack-N-Play and Hayden was laying with his arms up, and his hands tucked under his head… totally chill-axin’.
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