3 Years Old

3 years old

My boys are 3 years old! They have grown up so much since last year, its amazing the difference between a “new” 2-year-old and an “old” 2-year-old. They are now talking like big boys.  Granted, we still can’t understand about 20% of what they say, but they try so hard to get it out.

The boys have definitely turned into little boys and there is no more baby in them! It kind of makes me sad, but at the same time, I’m loving watching them become their own little person.  They are ALL boy and love to run, jump and climb, like any other 3 yr old boy! I would call them highly active, not hyper. They love playing outside in the backyard or at the park climbing on the jungle gym.

IMG_2174For their birthday we got them a big play set for the back yard that they call their “castle”.

IMG_2698The boys are all into cars and trains these days.  They have also just started pretend playing.  They tell me all the time, “we pretend” when they are “cooking” on their grill.  I walked in their room the other day and they were “pretending to wash their hands” with the hand sanitizer.  Not sure how they got it but they did and it was everywhere.

Hayden playing with his new train set

Ian playing with his new car ramp

This fall they started a parents day out program at our parents church (which we recently started attending) 2 days a week, and love it! It’s great for mom and dad too because that gives us each a day where we have about 4 hours that we can get stuff done or run errands with only 1 baby in tow – its amazing how much you can get done with 1 baby vs 2 or even 3!  When I went back to work after my maternity leave with Harper I went part-time, so I’m working 3 days a week now and am able to be at home a little more with the kids.  Luckily, one of those days that I’m off is a day the boys go to PDO.

The boys just had their 3 year check up today and passed with flying colors :).  Hayden weighed 34 pounds and was 38.25 inches tall (85%) and Ian weighed 30 pounds and 37.25 inches tall – as always, an inch shorter than Hayden. They are doing well with their sleep, eating (even though Hayden is very picky and Ian won’t drink milk anymore – like at all) and reflux/tummy issues.  We have both boys on a daily probiotic and I think it has helped quite a bit with digestive issues they had a few months ago. They both have seasonal allergies, Hayden not as much as Ian, and take Zyrtec as needed.

We have been slowly potty training the  boys and they do pretty well when we put them on the toilet to go, but they don’t do as well keeping underwear dry.  We haven’t really just put them in underwear much, simply because we haven’t had a free few days in a row to really work on it.  We plan on doing that around Christmas when Jonathan and I are both home for a week.

When Harper came along, it through the boys for a loop for a while.  They were off their schedule and mommy and daddy weren’t as accessible to them as often as they were since we had to take care of a pretty needy baby.  They were starting to act out some and were both having problems sleeping, but after things got semi back to normal and we had a routine again, our boys were back. Of course, they are your typical 3 year olds and visit time out on a daily basis for some reason or another.

These boys love their sister – they are always checking on her and trying to give her a hug or kiss.  They like to kiss her goodnight before going to bed every night and they love to climb up on her crib side rail to look at her.

Always checking on their sister - disregard the paci in Ian's mouth...we're working on that.  They only get it for nap and bedtime but he must have sneaked it when I wasn't looking

The boys generally play well together and its great that they always have a friend to play with. They do fight over toys like any toddler/preschooler would and they have been known to push one another, which leads to an automatic time out in our house and afterwards they have to hug and apologize to their brother. They really do love each other and get along great most of the time.  Ian tends to be the one that we’ll find playing by himself with his cars or reading a book, and Hayden does do well playing trains by himself, but prefers to play with someone else most of the time.

Chasing each other outside

having a brotherly chat

Hayden is our thinker, always has been….he has the mind of an engineer and it seems like it’s always on.  He’s tries to figure out how things work and loves to take things apart – not always put them back together though.

IMG_2728He is a sweet boy and loves giving hugs and kisses now. He likes to sit in your lap or by you on the couch when watching curious george or daniel tiger.  When he is tired, he is a cuddle bug.

He is still pretty picky – mainly due to textures that he can’t tolerate (he gets that from me), but loves his chicken nuggets (from Costco only), peanut butter sandwiches, and any carbs – bread, chips, etc.  He will only eat apples and bananas, no other fruit and no veggies.  But, he loves an organic spinach/cheese pizza – go figure!

He is a sweet boy and loves giving hugs and kisses now. He likes to sit in your lap or by you on the couch when watching curious george or daniel tiger.  When he is tired, he is a cuddle bug.

He loooves his trains! He has 2 different tracks that he plays with and he still loves his train table that he got last year for his birthday.  He is a happy camper when we let him sit and watch steam engine videos on our ipad.

This boy loooves his sleep, and is definitely a morning person (not sure where he gets that from because neither me nor his dad are).  He is ready to go to bed at night and sometimes will ask to take his nap.  But when morning comes (anywhere between 600-700) he is up and at em! Ian usually keeps Hayden up at night but Hayden wakes Ian up in the morning (which is not good sense Ian is NOT a morning person).  He still takes about an hour nap every day and goes to sleep usually around 745-800 and sleeps all night.

IMG_2715Hayden loves to “cook”.  We bought them a little grill and some play food and they are always cooking us lunch.  He got a little chef outfit for his birthday and loves to wear it.  He was helping daddy fix their dinner in this picture.

Hayden is a ham! he loves to joke around and goof off.  His laugh is contagious and you can’t help but laugh when you hear him.  When he smiles his eyes light up and his smile will definitely bring a smile to your face.

Hayden is a great helper and loves to have a task at hand.  He is someone who needs to feel needed and when he is asked to help you he gets excited.  I call him my OCD baby because he likes things to be in order and if they are out-of-place he will let me know.  He will be the one to put his cup or plate in the sink after he eats, or throw away a wrapper after he’s opened something.

This kid will go places and will more than likely be the leader doing it!

IMG_2727Ian is our Mr. Independent and the one to say “me do myself” many times throughout the day.  He loves to do things by himself like a big boy but not too big to ask for help.

Ian doesn’t care as much as Hayden as to how things work, just as long as they work! He is not as detail oriented as Hayden but is just as particular.  He loves to have things a certain way and has to have the same things every night when he sleeps – his animals, blanket, taggie, paci and flashlight!

Ian has a special name for Hayden.  He calls him “Zeus”, yes Zeus…like the greek god.  Of course he didn’t choose this name from greek mythology, but we have no clue where he came up with this or how it started.  One day he just started calling him that.  He even has us calling him that sometimes.

Ian is definitely our night owl and not a morning person.  He will keep Hayden up at night talking or trying to play.  We sometimes have to separate them at night because they end up playing instead of sleeping and when we do that Hayden goes straight to sleep where as Ian will lay there talking or singing to himself.  But Hayden usually wakes Ian up in the mornings and he is a mr. grumpy pants when that happens.  Ian is best when he is left to sleep until about 800 and wakes up on his own.

Ian can be a cuddle bug too, when he wants to be. He loves to cuddle with you on the couch or in the recliner after his nap. He will be the one to get upset when mommy has to leave to go to work – not always, but sometimes.  We have found that Ian is our homebody, he prefers to stay home and play rather than go somewhere.  He gets overstimulated if he does too much in one day.

Ian may not be the leader of the group, but he is strong-willed enough not to be persuaded into doing something he doesn’t want to do.

This boy loves his stuffed animals.  His bed is mostly animals and blankets and you’ll find him under them all! We’ve gone in there a few times and he has a teddy bear over his head.  He also loves his cars.  He can never have too many cars and will play with them for hours if we let him.

He loves to watch curious george and never gets tired of that IMG_0632little monkey! He was going through a mickey mouse phase where all he wanted to watch was mickey – “me watch mickey mouse?” all. day. long. But he isn’t into it that much anymore. He is a happy camper when he gets to sit and watch cars or mickey on our ipad.

He is still our reader and loves books, I will find him sitting on the couch reading a book at times, but he would still prefer us to read them to him.

Ian has always been a good eater, he will eat most any fruit and some green beans.  He will try some new foods occasionally and we tell him its ok not to like them, but he does need to try them.

Ian’s laugh is infectious and I love to hear him bust out laughing at something.  I love to see him get excited about something because his eyes show how excited he is.

I can’t wait to see what this kid will do!

Both of my boys have great manners.  We have always taught them to say please and thank you and now we find them saying it without us asking or telling them to say it.  I love to hear them say “tank you” in their little voices.

I have two of the best kids around and I couldn’t have asked for better boys.  I love them so much and now that they are talking, I love hearing what all they have to say!

Happy Birthday Boys!

Here is our annual picture with the boys in front of the house.  And for fun, a look back as previous years:

3 years old

 birthday collage

 

Rory Myers Children’s Adventure Garden

We have a family member ship to the Dallas Arboretum and have always loved going and taking the boys to run around and I especially love it because its a great place to get pictures! This year the new children’s adventure garden opened and it is awesome!  We have only gone once and were only there a short time so we only saw a very small part of the garden.  There is so much more to see and plan to go back soon.

The garden is divided up into 2 areas. To the right is for older kids and what I’ve heard is pretty hands on and a great learning experience, while the left side is more for toddler/preschool aged kids.  Here are some of the pictures from our short time there:

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DSC_0543enjoying the view during our picnic lunch

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Playing in the hay maze

While we were there we attempted to get some photos of the kids and the kids with us. I say attempted because the boys weren’t into taking pictures and would rather look at all the pumpkins. We got a few good ones but not a whole lot.  We are going to have to go back to get their annual birthday pictures with the pumpkins.

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Me and my crazies
Daddy and the kids

There are so many things for the kids to do that is interactive and they did an amazing job on this garden.  I think we will be getting an annual family membership for a few years to come simply because of this garden.

Harper’s Birth Announcement

When the boys were born it was close enough to Christmas that we just decided to roll their birth announcement and our family Christmas card into one. Since it’s July and too hot to even think about Christmas, we decided to do an actual birth announcement. Please help us welcome our beautiful new addition!

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2 months old

 

2 months old

2 months old

2monthcollageLittle missy is 2 months old.  She has grown so much in the last month but I don’t have her current stats because we don’t go for her 2 month check up until next week. She definitely has gained some weight and length in the last few weeks.  I just had to put away the majority of her newborn clothes because they were getting too short and I couldn’t button them.

She has had quite a difficult time during the first 2 months of her life, with her reflux and milk protein intolerance.  She has pretty bad reflux and is on Prevacid twice a day to control that.  She still has some bad days but over all her reflux is doing much better on the meds.

We did see the GI doctor in the last month and he confirmed her milk intolerance and reflux and gave us some things to watch for.  If we see any of these symptoms we will go back and see him, other wise we keep doing what we are doing and hope she outgrows the milk issues.  We can’t truly say its a milk allergy because we haven’t had her tested for it, so they are just calling it an intolerance.  The GI doc did add a probiotic for her to take daily and we switched her formula from Neocate to Elecare, which is the other amino-acid based formula.  I asked him if we could switch to the Elecare because she broke out in a rash all over her face and neck.  The rash started about a day or two after starting the Neocate and just continued to get worse.  Within a week of switching to the Elecare, the rash was completely gone.  It could have been a coincidence, but I think it was something in the Neocate that she was reacting to.

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her horrible rash – the pictures don’t look as bad as it did in person

She is eating 4.5 ounces every 4 hours now and then we give her a 5 ounce bottle at night before she goes down for the night.  She’s just like her brothers and likes her milk.  It doesn’t matter if her reflux is bothering her and she’s hurting….she will continue to eat in between episodes of crying.  This usually doesn’t happen often, but it will occasionally.

month2(2)As far as sleeping goes, we never know what to expect out of Harper at night.  Because of this, we really don’t have a set schedule for her, which I really don’t like. She will generally go down anywhere between 800-1000, sometimes later depending on when she eats last and then will sleep, on average, 5-6 hours then wake up to eat again and go right back to sleep.  She has had a few nights where she went 7-8 hours and one night she even went 10 hours!

month2(3)After the newborn sleepiness wore off she really hadn’t really been a good sleeper during the day and would sleep for 30 mins here and there but never really a good nap.  We started doing more tummy time in the last few weeks and when we would put her on her tummy she would fall asleep, every time! She has turned into a tummy sleeper for sure.  She can sleep or 2-3 hours on her stomach, but we only let her do it during the day and that’s because she is in the pack n play in the living room where we are or in her crib when I’m in there, and we can watch her.  At night she still sleeps on her back and will until she can roll over on her own.  Then at that point, we can’t do anything about it.

IMG_1786She’s starting to like to lay on her activity mat and watch it or lay in the pack n play and look at herself in the mirror.  Just in the last week, she has started to watch the mobile over her crib.

IMG_2126 playmatHarper is definitely a cuddle bug.  She loves to be held, and held close to you.  I ordered a carrier for her when I was pregnant and was just waiting for her to be big enough to put her in it.  It has proven to be a wise investment.  She loves it! She can be held close to momma and usually falls asleep while she’s in it.  I have worn it several times just around the house when she is fussy.  We will definitely use it this fall when we go to the arboretum because taking a stroller through the new children’s garden is quite cumbersome (more on that later).

IMG_1600A few weeks ago all the cousins on Jonathan’s side got together and for the first time we were able to get a photo of all 3 baby girls that were born around the same time.  We didn’t get a good picture of the babies, just of us holding them.

cousinsHarper has actually started smiling in response to something now.  She loves it when I smack my lips and she’ll usually start smiling at that – if she’s in the mood.

month2smileI am so happy that our sweet baby girl is finally feeling much better since finding the right “cocktail” of meds, probiotics and the best formula.  Since going through all of this with the boys we knew what was going on and were able to get a jump on things before she had to live with the pain too long.  Our pediatrician has been great too and together we got her back to our happy baby again. I love you sweet girl, can’t wait to see what you’ll be doing in another month!

 

 

 

Sibling love

This pretty much sums up how our days. The boys in Harper’s face…constantly. I absolutely love this picture because, despite the crazy faces, it shows the love they have for their sister. I could show you all the cute and sweet pics of them together but this is a more accurate depiction of our lives.

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