Does being mean pay?

Wise Bread asks the question after Ann Coulter’s recent comments about John Edwards, “Does being a jerk pay?” Obviously in Coulter’s case the answer may be yes.

I’m not interested in what Ann believes. I’m interested in how she manages to survive by doing little more than upset people.
Of course, the press eats it up for fear of appearing biased and liberal. Fox News let Alan Colmes “talk tough” to Coulter before letting all the other commentators talk about just how great she is. This is how Coulter remains relevant. Even she seems to be aware of just how boring the whole routine has become. As she said to Alan Colmes on Hannity & Colmes:
I mean, this is the same thing we go through every six months. I say something, the same people become hysterical, and that’s the end of it.
And I think she’s right. Even though some more conservative people have jumped up to condemn her comments, this doesn’t hurt her. As Fox News Pat Caddell said:
It was very funny. They were raising money with it. So at least you raised money for them, Ann, but I’m sure it won’t hurt any of your book sales either.

If that’s the case and being a jerk or mean really pays (financially) what’s the advantage to being nice and lovable?
Does the jerk always win?
And to play hardball/devil’s advocate: Because Wise Bread is about being frugal/wise with our monies should we all be jerks to one another so we can be more financially sound?

Quit breaking the law!

There’s a story in today’s Waxahachie Daily Light that reminds me of a great quote from the Jim Carrey movie, Liar Liar.

Anyone who has driven through Red Oak on Interstate 35 in the past few months has probably noticed increased police patrol in the stretch from the Bear Creek Road exit to the U.S. Highway 77 overpass — a five-mile construction zone that is part of the Red Oak Police Department’s jurisdiction.
The increased patrol is part of the department’s traffic division formed by traffic enforcement, accident investigation and supplement patrol.
“The reason I wanted to do the traffic division is so that we can have constant visibility for public safety,” said Red Oak Police Chief Red Fullerton. “The plan is that with constant visibility, people will know we’re going to be out there and hopefully will decrease their speed.”
In 2005, a television news station in Dallas named the portion of I-35 through Red Oak the most dangerous stretch of interstate in North Texas.

I received a couple calls regarding the increased police presence on I-35 when I worked at the paper and all I could think of was, Carrey’s line, after he kept having to bail one of his clients out of jail… “Well quit breaking the law!”
I admit I’ve received my fair share of speeding tickets. I’ve been ticketed for seven miles and hour over and 19 miles an hour over. But the thing is – regardless, one mile an hour over is breaking the law.
Why do we want to throw a fuss at the police or other authority when they catch us and/or punish us for breaking a posted law?
Maybe I’m missing something here.

An Old City Bar

Yesterday Brian filled the church in on our future direction. I hope to have a podcast up by this evening but I was running into some problems yesterday with my software. And for some reason I have a Christmas song stuck in my head today (at least that’s better than the Father Abraham I had stuck in my head yesterday — thanks to Scott).
It’s not a traditional song by any means. It’s from the Trans Siberian Orchestra. But as I read over the lyrics again I thought it was very fitting for the direction I believe our church is heading…

“Old City Bar”

In an old city bar
That is never too far
From the places that gather
The dreams that have been

In the safety of night
With its old neon light
It beckons to strangers
And they always come in

And the snow it was falling
The neon was calling
The music was low
And the night
Christmas Eve

And here was the danger
That even with strangers
Inside of this night
It’s easier to believe

Then the door opened wide
And a child came inside
That no one in the bar
Had seen there before

And he asked did we know
That outside in the snow
That someone was lost
Standing outside our door

Then the bartender gazed
Through the smoke and the haze
Through the window and ice
To a corner streetlight

Where standing alone
By a broken pay phone
Was a girl the child said
Could no longer get home

And the snow it was falling
The neon was calling
The bartender turned
And said, not that I care
But how would you know this?
The child said I’ve noticed
If one could be home
They’d be all ready there

Then the bartender came out from behind the bar
And in all of his life he was never that far
And he did something else that he thought no one saw
When he took all the cash from the register draw

Then he followed the child to the girl cross the street
And we watched from the bar as they started to speak
Then he called for a cab and he said J.F.K.
Put the girl in the cab and the cab drove away
And we saw in his hand
That the cash was all gone
From the light that she had wished upon

If you want to arrange it
This world you can change it
If we could somehow make this
Christmas thing last

By helping a neighbor
Or even a stranger
And to know who needs help
You need only just ask

Then he looked for the child
But the child wasn’t there
Just the wind and the snow
Waltzing dreams through the air

So he walked back inside
Somehow different I think
For the rest of the night
No one paid for a drink

And the cynics will say
That some neighborhood kid
Wandered in on some bums
In the world where they hid

But they weren’t there
So they couldn’t see
By an old neon star
On that night, Christmas Eve

When the snow it was falling
The neon was calling
And in case you should wonder
In case you should care

Why we’re on our own
Never went home
On that night of all nights
We were already there

THEN ALL AT ONCE INSIDE THAT NIGHT
HE SAW IT ALL SO CLEAR
THE ANSWER THAT HE SOUGHT SO LONG
HAD ALWAYS BEEN SO NEAR

IT’S EVERY GIFT THAT SOMEONE GIVES
EXPECTING NOTHING BACK
IT’S EVERY KINDNESS THAT WE DO
EACH SIMPLE LITTLE ACT


I looked for someone to stand up for me against all this, to repair the defenses of the city, to take a stand for me and stand in the gap to protect this land so I wouldn’t have to destroy it. I couldn’t find anyone. Not one. – Ezekiel 22:30

What are you doing to change the world around you? Or are you simply waiting for the world to change?

State of the church

There’s a buzz in the air at encounter. I do believe everyone’s looking forward to the “State of the church address” today. Brian plans to answer the question, “Where do we go from here?” this morning during his message. I’m excited. I really believe that I’m right where God wants me right now, including at encounter. I’ll be getting married in less than two months to the most amazing woman you’ll ever meet, I’ve just started a new job with Ellis County and I’m working with the church on the media team and heading up our new focus on community groups. I can’t wait to see where God takes us (and me) next.
Here are just a few of the things coming up…
encounter1.jpg
encounter2.jpg
encounter3.jpgencounter4.jpgencounter5.jpg
Read the full newsletter (pay no attention to the picture of the goofy guy halfway down the page).

New direction

Well I started my new job today. I’m really looking forward to it. There’s already loads of work to be done in the next few weeks/months. It will keep me busy and looks like I’ll start at 7 every day rather than 8. Don’t mind that so much because I’ll be leaving by 4 but it will take a little getting used to. I definitely won’t miss working late nights.
So how was your day? Anything exciting going on?

More props

Since I’ve been dropping a couple props today I figured I don’t want to leave anyone out.
Here are a couple more things I’m enjoying as of late thanks to great friends and family:

  1. Two new dress shirts for work (Thanks to Mom, Dad and my grandparents)
  2. A new bluetooth headset for my cell phone (Also thanks to Mom, Dad and my grandparents)
  3. A great framed photo of my sister and I from her wedding (Thanks to Kara)
  4. A four pack of Monster drinks to get me going in the morning (Thanks to Jose and Sally)

I mean seriously I have some great friends and family. And that doesn’t include all the wedding gifts we got on Saturday that are just waiting to be used.