{"id":4222,"date":"2008-12-22T12:39:54","date_gmt":"2008-12-22T18:39:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/?p=4222"},"modified":"2008-12-22T12:40:24","modified_gmt":"2008-12-22T18:40:24","slug":"the-santa-clause","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/the-santa-clause\/","title":{"rendered":"The Santa clause"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-content\/uploads\/russian_icon_instaplanet_saint_nicholas-241x300.jpg\" alt=\"russian_icon_instaplanet_saint_nicholas\" title=\"russian_icon_instaplanet_saint_nicholas\" width=\"241\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4223\" srcset=\"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-content\/uploads\/russian_icon_instaplanet_saint_nicholas-241x300.jpg 241w, http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-content\/uploads\/russian_icon_instaplanet_saint_nicholas.jpg 441w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 241px) 100vw, 241px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s an interesting discussion going on at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.emergentvillage.com\/weblog\/santa-yes-or-no\">emergent village<\/a> about whether Christian parents should teach their children about Santa Claus or not.<\/p>\n<p>As someone who believed in Santa growing up, I&#8217;ve always looked upon the idea and nostalgia of Santa with great fun memories. My granddad has always played up the hopes and dreams of Santa&#8217;s spirit and continues to even to this day. I&#8217;ve often given gifts addressed from Santa rather than my own name. And perhaps it&#8217;s that spirit of anonymous\/mysterious giving that attracts me most.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve feel like I&#8217;ve had a healthy understanding of Santa from my parents and I think that their teaching and upbringing have helped me to have a healthy understanding of &#8220;things&#8221; as well. <\/p>\n<p>So, what&#8217;s the proper response and approach for future (or current) parents &#8212; (<em>not that we&#8217;re expecting any children anytime soon<\/em>)?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>My kids (ages 3, 3, 1.5) are right on the precipice of imagination: scratchy monsters, dinosaurs, and talking wolves are all becoming characters in our everyday lives. That\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s great, but what should I tell them about Santa?<\/p>\n<p>It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s not just that if rearranged, the letters in his name spell Satan, though such a coincidence should give us all pause (just kidding). It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s more the race and class dimensions of Santa\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s identity and his social role. Should we really encourage children to project their material aspirations onto an idealized white man? As a full-time working woman, I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t want my own hard work, income generation, present-purchasing and gift-wrapping to not only be entirely discredited, but all attributed to a benevolent white man. And I also don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t want to encourage my children to associate material wealth, kindness and generosity, and feasting with whiteness and maleness.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Here are my comments ::<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>We\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re not parents yet, but we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve had discussions about what we might do about Santa Claus when that time comes. I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t think we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve come to a firm conclusion yet.<\/p>\n<p>I heard some great stories this weekend on Travel with Rick Steves about how many other cultures celebrate Christmas and the holiday season (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ricksteves.com\/radio\/streaming\/program117a.asx\">http:\/\/www.ricksteves.com\/radio\/streaming\/program117a.asx<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>What intrigued me most were the several countries who celebrate St. Nicholas Day on the 6th of December \u00e2\u20ac\u201c and that\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s when their children receive gifts. There are variations of this as well \u00e2\u20ac\u201c and in Sicily, they receive gifts on All Saints Day (Nov 1) from dead relatives (creepy).<\/p>\n<p>But it seemed like all cultures left the gifts to other dates and then celebrated Christmas on Dec 24-26 with church services and family. The gifts weren\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t part of the picture.<\/p>\n<p>So, what if we too celebrated <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/St_Nicolas\">St. Nicholas Day<\/a> on Dec 6th and used it as a day to remember the saint (and other saints) who gave all they had. And we gave small gifts to our children on those days in remembrance of the saint. And then on Christmas morning, rather than rushing to open presents \u00e2\u20ac\u201c we bundled up as a family and found ways to serve others \u00e2\u20ac\u201c giving of our SELVES.<\/p>\n<p>Another idea we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve had is to take from the Jewish tradition of Hanukkah and give a small gift on each Sunday of Advent and then give a slightly larger one on Christmas morning.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>What are some other creative ideas? What are you doing? What have you considered doing? Is it something to even be concerned with?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s an interesting discussion going on at emergent village about whether Christian parents should teach their children about Santa Claus or not. As someone who believed in Santa growing up, I&#8217;ve always looked upon the idea and nostalgia of Santa with great fun memories. My granddad has always played up the hopes and dreams of &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/the-santa-clause\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">The Santa clause<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":84,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[18,10,19],"tags":[1572,1137,484,1719,1723,471,1722],"class_list":["post-4222","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-faith","category-mi-familia","category-reflections","tag-advent","tag-children","tag-christmas","tag-holidays","tag-parents","tag-santa","tag-st-nicholas"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pEnSo-166","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4222","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/84"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4222"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4222\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4222"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4222"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/casadeblundell.com\/jonathan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4222"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}