How do I Love Her?

Well you know it’s not the first time
And it will not be the last
When You find me here on my knees
Praying for the storm to pass

But what I am really needing
Is much more than just relief
I am crying out for wisdom
Only You can give to me
Cause it’s such a mystery
I’m a clueless man
When it comes
To knowing how to love a woman

How do I love her?
How do I let her know she
means more than anything to me?
How do I love her?

Out of all the gifts You’ve given
Besides the very gift of life
There is none as precious to me
As the treasure of my wife

And still all the love in my heart
Is like a raindrop to the sea
When compared to Your love for her
And thats why I ask You please
Will You teach me what she needs
I’m a earnest man
When it comes
To learning how to love this woman

Well I know it’s gonna to take a lifetime
To answer this prayer I pray
But that’s okay
Cause I’ve given You and her my lifetime anyway

Steven Curtis Chapman

Out of my League

it’s her hair and her eyes today
that just simply take me away
and the feeling that i’m falling further in love
makes me shiver but in a good way
all the times i have sat and stared
as she thoughtfully thumbs through her hair
and she purses her lips, bats her eyes as she plays,
with me sitting there slack-jawed and nothing to say
coz i love her with all that i am
and my voice shakes along with my hands
coz she’s all that I see and she’s all that I need
and i’m out of my league once again

it’s a masterful melody when she calls out my name to me
as the world spins around her she laughs, rolls her eyes
and i feel like i’m falling but it’s no surprise
coz i love her with all that i am
and my voice shakes along with my hands
cause it’s frightening to be swimming in this strange sea
but i’d rather be here than on land
yes she’s all that i see and she’s all that i need
and i’m out of my league once again

it’s her hair and her eyes today
that just simply take me away
and the feeling that i’m falling further in love
makes me shiver but in a good way
all the times i have sat and stared
as she thoughtfully thumbs through her hair
and she purses her lips, bats her eyes as she plays,
with me sitting there slack-jawed and nothing to say
coz i love her with all that i am
and my voice shakes along with my hands
cause it’s frightening to be swimming in this strange sea
but i’d rather be here than on land
yes she’s all that i see and she’s all that i need
and i’m out of my league once again

I LOVE YOU BABY!

Verses from today

It’s been a while since I’ve posted anything in this category but had to share some of my reading from this morning:

So this is my prayer: that your love will flourish and that you will not only love much but well. Learn to love appropriately. You need to use your head and test your feelings so that your love is sincere and intelligent, not sentimental gush. Live a lover’s life, circumspect and exemplary, a life Jesus will be proud of: bountiful in fruits from the soul, making Jesus Christ attractive to all, getting everyone involved in the glory and praise of God.
– Phil 1:9-11

referring to those who preach Christ for other motives:

So how am I to respond? I’ve decided that I really don’t care about their motives, whether mixed, bad, or indifferent. Every time one of them opens his mouth, Christ is proclaimed, so I just cheer them on! – Phil 1:18

…regardless of whether I live or die. They didn’t shut me up; they gave me a pulpit! Alive, I’m Christ’s messenger; dead, I’m his bounty. Life versus even more life! I can’t lose. – Phil 1:20-21

Meanwhile, live in such a way that you are a credit to the Message of Christ. Let nothing in your conduct hang on whether I come or not. Your conduct must be the same whether I show up to see things for myself or hear of it from a distance. Stand united, singular in vision, contending for people’s trust in the Message, the good news, not flinching or dodging in the slightest before the opposition. – Phil 1:27…

thoughts on nouveau-Christianity

There continues to be the fear that people are suddenly losing sight of Christ and Scripture in the emergent/emerging churches and new forms of expressing Christianity. I continue to see this broad paintbrush splattering paint everywhere trying to give some kind of recognition to something people don’t understand. It’s as if they don’t understand a new expression of faith so they assume it must all be heresy and evil (which by definition, heresy is: theological or religious opinion or doctrine maintained in opposition, or held to be contrary, to the Roman Catholic or Orthodox doctrine of the Christian Church, or, by extension, to that of any church, creed, or religious system, considered as orthodox. By extension, heresy is an opinion or doctrine in philosophy, politics, science, art, etc., at variance with those generally accepted as authoritative so couldn’t any form of protestantism be considered heretics? Also isn’t theology simply man’s study of, or best guess at knowing a God whom we can never totally understand, know or comprehend?).

Anyways, Brian’s been reading Un-Christian and shared some new thoughts today:

Barna research ministries has revealed 4 mega-themes that are impacting culture today. One of the 4 is what they refer to as “nouveau Christianity” – the idea that a new form of Christian faith is taking shape in our day. Here are their research results:

The research discovered that people are reframing not just faith in general, but Christianity in particular. While slightly fewer adults – and many fewer teens – are identifying themselves as Christians these days, the image of the Christian faith has taken a beating. This battered image is the result of a combination of factors:

  • harsh media criticism
  • “unchristian” behavior by church people
  • bad personal experiences with churches
  • ineffective Christian leadership amid social crises
  • and the like

The result is that those who choose to remain Christian – however they define it – are also reformulating the popular notion of what “Christian” and the Christian life mean. Some of those changes are producing favorable outcomes, while others are less appealing.

For instance, a generational analysis of the Barna data showed that spiritual practices among those who claim to be Christians are shifting dramatically. New practices are in vogue:

  • embracing racial diversity and tolerance within congregations
  • pursuing spiritual diversity in conversations and relationships
  • valuing interpersonal connections above spiritual education
  • blending all forms of the arts and novel forms of instruction into religious events
  • and accepting divergent forms of spiritual community (e.g., house churches, intentional communities, marketplace ministries)

Traditional ventures such as integrating discipline and regimen in personal faith development are becoming less popular. Repeating the same weekly routines in religious events is increasingly deemed anachronistic, stifling and irrelevant. Rigidity of belief – which includes the notion that there are absolute moral and spiritual truths – perceived by a large (and growing) share of young people to be evidence of closed-mindedness.

The result is a nouveau form and structure for the Christian faith that will have broad-based consequences on the practice of Christianity for years to come.

I know there are many today who are concerned with this “nouveau” development in Christianity. I am not frightened by this changes but instead embrace them for they are the bridges of grace to a generation that needs to know Christ. None of them deny doctrine, the deity of Christ, the Scriptures, or the essential footings of the faith. They represent method changes and reflect the needs and longings of a generation. As “encounter” we stand in the gap of heaven and a generation to bring them to the reality of the cross. What a time to be alive!

Not over yet

What a weekend… and it’s not over yet.


The stockings are hung by the chimney with care…

Yesterday (Friday) was my last day to work for Ellis County. It was a great job. I enjoyed it and I’m thankful for everyone who helped me along the way. Another opportunity came available and I was surprised that I was offered a job with Dallas County Community College District.
I’ll be working in their admin building downtown helping keep their course catalog updated online.
It’s a step up pay wise as well as benefit wise it would appear.
I’ll start the new position Wednesday, Dec. 5.
As part of wrapping up things with the county, I turned my laptop in and set it up for my boss. Not a big deal, but we ended up checking on some phone calls and complaints later than I expected so we got back to the office later than normal and I still had to finish a couple things with the computers before leaving.
Not a big deal in and of itself but apparently I didn’t hear/understand or forgot that Laurie wanted to head to Dallas at 4 p.m. DOH! She txt’d me around 4:20 asking when I’d be home. Thinking we weren’t leaving till 5 I told her I’d be home by then and then discovered through the next couple messages that that was going to mess up our schedule.
DOH!
I hate doing things like that. I hate running late, especially when someone is counting on me – and I do it far too often. I need to add that to my list of things to improve this year and next.
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